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Hetero Male Dominant, 65,  Waterford, Wisconsin
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What I seek in a slave to own is one whose primary purpose is general and complete service, not play, not romance, and not to be their One. For more than that you will need to read the bottom of my profile or ask me.


I have my first book about how to think about and do Masterslave relationships and specifically how to do consensual enslavement of another person. It is I Can Do This and can be found on Amazon.


I am Gorean. If you dont know what that means, I am always willing to talk to those interested in what being Gorean is about, both for the Free and for the slave. I am also willing to help others along the paths that people follow whether free or slave. I work to support the Gorean community online and offline through teaching, sponsoring and supporting offline gatherings of Goreans. I hold two gatherings a year and I have been supporting the monthly ChicagoGor offline meetings. For more ination about that, contact me.

I do my best to support Goreans through helping people understand what we are and what we do via the many online mailing lists and forums I have posted to over the years and by email and in person. I am one of the better known and more traveled Goreans. That does not make me a spokesman or leader, official or unofficial, to speak for other Goreans. I pass on and teach what I know and believe. Not every one likes that.

The other main interest of mine is the training of slaves and studying the science and practice of consensual enslavement. I am not speaking of sex, pain or even just service, but in helping females reach a level of submission to the will of another and doing so usually within the cultural context of the Gor books and within the possibilities of consensual slavery. I am not into pain. I am not into a BDSM lifestyle. I have much more knowledge of BDSM than most may think because of my studying how someone can be enslaved from a psychological as well as a neurological basis. I research where the sources lead me and those are sometimes BDSM sources and sometimes cognitive neurology papers. I am trying to understand the how and why, not just follow a cookbook approach that others may do. I definitely dont assume that just being a dominant male or even a Gorean man means that I know to master or enslave someone. I am working to understand the process well enough to write the best book(s) on consensual enslavement.

What does all this mean for people who read this profile? It means that I am someone who will talk about what living as a Gorean offline is like or how consensual enslavement works in practice. I also help those who wish to become a slavekajira, or who wish to improve themselves as a slavekajira. I train on both on a al and an inal basis. I have owned and currently own a slave and I sometimes help slaves find Masters who will be able to master them and be good for them as they will be good for the Master. What I dont do is online only training. I use the net, but I do not confine my training to the net. It is not possible within any amount of effort or time I wish to use to enslave a person only through the net. I can do in a day or two offline what would take months online. I will provide details on what I do to anyone interested.

Right now I am mostly limiting myself to offline training with slaves who are reasonably close andor who can come to me or who are within a drivable distance from me. If you are geographically close to the southeast Wisconsin area and have an interest in becoming not just a BDSM sub, but a slave and possibly a slave in the Gorean style, a kajira, talk to me. I can make exceptions for exceptional people. If you are interested in being a Gorean, not just playing one online, talk to me as well. In all cases I answer mail as quickly as I can. That can take a couple days if I am traveling or dont get on CS, but I will answer any serious mail. I will provide other pictures of me upon request.

I have written a fair bit over the last two decades on things Gorean and consensual enslavement and some of it is still available online, here on CollarChat before it was removed, and especially on FetLife. Most of it is worth reading. You can find years worth of my writing here on the message boards mostly in the Goreans forum. Most of my current writing is on FetLife or on Details on request and you can use search engines to find out more on your own.

For those who have made it this far down my profile, I am looking for primarily a service slave who can also help train others AND who wishes to be owned by an irascible, curmudgeonly Gorean...namely me. I currently own and live with a slave but will eventually be looking for a second long term live-in slave or one for a fixed period. One other thing. My sense of humor is to kill in kill me for. I love making bad jokes and worse puns.

I have worked with slaves who have no experience to some who have very much experience. My speciality is training and teaching both enslavement and, as above, being Gorean. I have something of a professorial view of the subject and of myself so I will go into lecture mode at the drop of a question. Any slave training in my house must be able to deal with times of having other slaves in and out of my home either visiting or here for temporary training periods. I am not looking for a romantic relationship so if you are, I might work with you but you will not find it with me. Other than that, we can talk and see if what I do and offer is what you are seeking. About half of the slaves I have worked with offline or have owned, have been under 30. Given my age, even I find that interesting. I will freely answer questions and give the occasional advice to people who are interested in either things Gorean or dealing with consensual slavery and enslavement. All you have to do is ask.

One last point. I only own or actively work with females who are US citizens or permanent residents of the US. I will talk with anyone at any time but you must be able to come to me to be trained and legally live here to be owned.












 Dominant Male



 5' 11"

 295 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

 Lives For:

 Science Fiction (Expert)

 Gor (Expert)


 SCA (Expert)

 Being Massaged

 Massage (Giving) (Expert)







 You wearing my collar

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Mental Bondage


 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control


 Online RPGs

 Role Playing Games (Expert)

 Simulation Games (Expert)

 Web Surfing




 Alternative Music


 Folk Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 New Age Music

 New Wave

 Rock Music

 Show Tunes


 Renaissance Faires

 Blue Grass

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Nineties Music

 Pop Music


 Seventies Music

 Curious About:



 Horror Movies

 Country Music

 Hard Limits:

 TV Sports

 Female Sovereignty

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Journal Entries:
2/20/2015 2:16:43 AM
I am placing this here for those, unlike myself, who don't read all of someone's profile. There is more information in the profile towards the. 

It looks like I will be wanting a second slave in house by late summer of 2015 at the latest, probably earlier. I do own one right now and have for three years as of December 2014. What I am looking for is a slave whose primary purpose is service to me, not play, not romance, and not to be their "One". Also, someone who is not a child, lover, girlfriend, future spouse but a slave who will maintain my home and serve me in a drama free fashion. I much prefer pleasure and inflicting pleasure than pain. I want someone in-house 24/7 unless other arrangements are made. This does mean your relocating to me. So, I am opening up a place in my home once more either for a slave in training or one who would wish to be owned by an irascible, curmudgeonly Gorean...namely me.

9/17/2010 5:17:19 PM
Just a quick note here where it can be seen. I don't mind people, especially subs or slaves, emailing me without any sort of permission. I have had that come up a number of times and if someone wants to talk to me, contact me. I don't do chat here, just mail.

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