Please read the entire profile...

I consider myself a true Alpha Male, subtle assertive in anything I do. It comes naturally to me; it is not a façade, guise or assumed role. I am a natural leader and mentor.

If the following describes you, then we should talk:

"I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling all that I am capable of doing but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding."

If I were to label my personal thoughts on my
own style of dominance and submission, I would
call it benevolent dominance. What I find funny
about the entire dynamic is that the submissive
partner who gives their consent to the dominant
partner is really holding as much or more power
in the relationship than the dominant partner.
Without that consent, the relationship is
practically meaningless. I tend to gear myself
towards finding inventive and creative ways of
obtaining it. Of course there is a time for
sheer physical power, but that's not very
imaginative, now is it.

We all have vanilla lives to live, what happens behind closed doors is between us. Obviously we cannot spend 24/7 behind closed doors; we need to take care of the other obligation in our lives.