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I am seeking a long term relationship: one built on a genuine emotional connection, open & honest communication, kindness, and trust.
I am in my 30's and have a stable career in the tech industry. Overall I really love my job, not just for the work that I do, but because of the lifestyle it affords me. I make enough to live comfortably with my dog, Josie, and take a few trips each year. Money may not buy happiness, but it sure as hell brings peace of mind. Working from home full-time has enabled me to maintain a nice apartment, pursue hobbies like baking and studying Japanese, and also get back into the gym. I'm someone who thrives on a routine and I've built a good one for myself; I feel genuine contentment in my life, which is not something I've had in awhile.
Personality wise I am an easy-going guy. If you asked my friends about me, they would tell you that I am sweet, caring, patient, generous, funny, and easy to be around. Over the last few years I have learned that I am resilient, strong, and loyal to a fault. I don't like fighting, but I prefer to face issues head on, to the point that I worry I am overly blunt.
In my free time I enjoy walking my dog, reading books, watching TV/Movies (horror and animation are my favorites), hanging out with my friends and playing board games, doing adult coloring books, and sporadically writing in my journal. I've also been actively pursuing new hobbies, like language studies (current: Japanese), painting miniatures, and baking.
What I am looking for in a partner is someone who is kind, makes me feel appreciated, likes to explore and try new things, and is independent. I've come to really value my time to myself, I find that it helps center me when things get stressful. Having a partner that understands and respects my need for space is crucial.
I should also say that I am a widower. I lost my wife to breast cancer in January 2022; she was 33. I've been talking with therapists throughout her treatments and after her passing, and I feel like I have a good handle on my grief. If I didn't, this profile wouldn't exist. I am willing to talk about it, so if you have questions please ask. I do reserve the right to say I am not willing to answer if I don't feel up for it at that time.
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In terms of BDSM, I have some experience but exclusively as a sub. I've gone to a pro-dominatrix a few times in the last few months. BDSM is something that has always interested me and getting to explore my boundaries/kinks has been a very liberating experience. My ideal relationship would be vanilla in the streets, kink in the sheets.
In terms of activities and interests, some of my known likes are bondage/restraints; sensory deprivation; body worship (onto you); chastity; and tie & tease. I also have interest in orgasm control and slave training, though I have yet to experience those.
While I do tend more towards being naturally submissive and prefer to let others take the lead, I have no interest in having my opinions and desires overlooked. Again, I am looking for someone who treats me with kindness, communicates openly, and shows their appreciation & affection. I want to be in an FLR in which I feel like my partner is worthy of my worship and loyalty, and who makes me feel respected/appreciated. I'd be fine in an FLR where her decisions are made AFTER we've discussed things. I don't want a steam roller who feels entitled to get what she wants at my expense. That's not a relationship, that's abuse.
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