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Pan Female Dominant, 49,  Seattle area, Washington
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Expanding poly, pagan household has openings. Please reach out via message here if you are interested. Due to the way I file profiles, I won’t always know of your interest if you just add this profile to your favorites list.

I am looking for the following individuals…

Female – One person. You will be my personal assistant and best friend in addition to being owned property. If you have an interest in topping males it’s a plus but not a requirement. Though you will have time to yourself, be willing to almost be my shadow and definitely be my right hand. Be prepared to spend time pampering me but not much time doing chores or other household duties. Your full-time focus will be me and helping me do all of the projects I dream up. Please be assigned female at birth and identify as female. It would be nice if you were bi/pan but that is not a requirement.

Males – One, maybe two if the right ones come along. This is a service position. Sex is NOT the focus of the relationship. Bi or curious preferred but I’ll consider het individuals. You will assist my current domestic boy with chores, help me with a variety of projects, and contribute to society in general and the household by working a full-time job. During play parties at the house, you will ensure guests have refreshments and everything is kept tidy.

I do NOT need a domestic. That position has already been filled.

The ideal candidates will be open minded and understand that this is a long-term, real-life opportunity. Everyone in the household is expected to help with chores, contribute positive energy, and be part of the family. This means participating in family activities whether that be relaxing in front of the TV, preparing for a spiritual activity, or enjoying a bonfire and smores out back. It is okay to be an introvert and there will be a good deal of unstructured time. However structured time is not optional. Expect to share a room with at least one other person. Be honest, reliable, interested or willing to learn about the metaphysical, and willing to relocate within a reasonable amount of time.

Bonus points for the following…

Military service

Playing an instrument

Higher educational degree

Gardening experience or interest

Other things that I am just not thinking of at the moment so don’t be shy about contacting us just because you don’t have any of the above

Each person will have their own unique dynamic with me so I’m open to a variety of needs and experience levels. A hierarchy will likely develop as that is the natural tendency of human beings. With the exception of a possible alpha s type to help me, I do not plan to designate who is where in the hierarchy but to allow it to naturally evolve as the family grows together.

I have been actively involved in real life experiences in this lifestyle since 2001. I started as a slave, which now allows me a unique perspective on the s type psyche. I enjoy control without micromanagement, deep spiritual connections, and guiding those I care about to become the best versions of themselves possible. I’m currently working on creating the foundation for a large spiritual organization with a metaphysical influence and hope to be ready to restart our kink house parties as well as pagan gatherings this year. In my ‘free time’ I enjoy musical theatre, crafts, and exploring energy work.

Hard limits...

Anything that threatens anyone’s physical-mental-spiritual health or safety (unprotected sex with anyone outside the household, eating feces, roaming a bad neighborhood alone, death, etc.)

Giving money to potential s types who do not live in our home. If you need help getting here, I can pick you up if you are local or purchase a non-refundable bus ticket.

Anything that has to do with any fur babies (I have1 dog, 2 cats).

Anything illegal

Use of guns as a BDSM activity-prop (I am not anti-gun; I just respect them enough to not use them in play)

Frequent recreational drug or alcohol use or use of drugs or alcohol during BDSM activities. Occasional use of those substances may be permitted, depending on the person and situation

Smoking – this is not even allowed away from the house as third hand smoke affects my asthma

Please use the word abracadabra in the first line of your message so I know that you read the entire profile.











 Dominant Female

 Seattle area 


 5' 1"






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Male slave/sub

Switch Female

Switch Male

Sub/Sub Couples

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Amusement Parks


 Musical Theater


 Collaring you

 You massaging me

 You being my domestic servant

 Hair Pulling

 You at the end of my leash

 Mental Bondage

 Training you to be completely
obedient to me and only me

 Complete control of your orgasms

 Speech Restrictions


 The Occult


 Female Led Relationships

 Female Sovereignty

 Goddess Sanctuary


 Show Tunes

 Modern Paganism





 Garage Sales



 Blindfolding you

 You worshiping my body

 Tying you up


 Disciplining you with a cane

 Keeping you permanently locked in tamper evident chastity

 Penetrating your rear

 You having no entitlement to expect orgasms

 Sensation Play

 Spanking you

 Tickling you while you're bound

 Wax Play

 Alternative Medicine



 Intellectual Discourse

 Paranormal Phenomena


 Lifestyle BDSM

 You pampering me

 Deciding what you do and when you do it every day of the week

 Country Music


 Fine Dining



 Giving you corner time facing the wall

 Disciplining your private parts

 You kissing my feet


 Going to munches

 You worshiping me with recitations and rituals



 Candle Making




 Classical Music




 Folk Music

 Curious About:

 Renaissance Faires

 Scuba Diving


 Modern Primitivism


 Feng Shui


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Hard Limits:

 Conservative Politics


 Administrative Professional

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Journal Entries:
4/28/2023 12:28:04 PM

UPDATE: Please note that on my profile where it differentiates the roles I'm seeking, the top says Female and the bottom says Male.  The bottom SHOULD read, "All Others".  My apologies for any confusion. 

4/5/2023 1:00:54 AM

For those unsure of how old my profile is, I updated it today. Yes, it is accurate.

6/7/2022 12:36:17 PM

There are a variety of people on this site with a variety of intentions. Just to be clear, I am here to find those who wish to relocate to me and serve me.  I am not here for games.  I am not here to talk about all the ways you might be played with in my adult room so you can masturbate.  I am not here for your pleasure.

This is a lifestyle that I live day to day and I invite you to contact me if you would like to make this your way of life.  I realize taking that step is difficult and I will reach out to some of you but please do not wait for me to do that.  

Adding me to your favorites list will not trigger me to reach out to you.  Not because I don’t care but due to the way I sort through profiles, I may not necessarily be able to see just who added me to their favorites.  

I look forward to meeting those of you who wish to serve me.

Madame Kelli

3/14/2022 11:02:28 AM

For those of you who continue to contact me asking for a visit to play in exchange for something, please know that while that is an option with me, it is not what I am on this site seeking.  Please just message me and ask for my email address so we can chat about it there.  I am here seeking those who wish to relocate and live with me as a part of my household.  The kind of sessions I do are not to be discussed on this site.

12/2/2021 11:01:14 AM

Please do not wait for me to contact you.  If you read our profile and are interested, please send a message.  If you wait for us to contact you then you might miss out.

11/25/2021 6:58:25 PM

For those who identify as a sissy, yes you may contact us but keep this in mind I know what you mean when you say sissy but I am not sure that you know what the term actually means. Sissy is a derogative term for someone who acts in a stereotypical female way. Why, as a woman, would I encourage the concept that dressing or acting like a female is a negative thing? Being a female is something to celebrate, not something to use as an insult or humiliation. A man who wants the freedom to be female is empowered, now cowardly. I understand the concept of wanting the worst humiliation someone can come up with but to decide that means being a female is just another act of the patriarchy. Yes, some female dominants have bought into the concept. It doesnt make it any less insulting to those of us who are intelligent enough to know what it really means.

12/14/2015 6:24:24 PM
I was recently asked what I wanted for the holidays by several potential slave. I thought and thought and if someone WANTS to get Me something they can send Me an amazon gift card number.  It's NOT NOT NOT a requirement to speak with Me.  I'm just putting this out there because I have been asked a few times.  I have also made an amazon wish list.  Again, a gift is NOT required to have a conversation with Me.

Happy Holidays and thank you in advance to everyone!

~Madame Kelli

12/7/2015 2:22:29 PM
This is also required reading for anyone wishing to be considered for My household:

Read it.  Learn it.  Make it a part of you.

~Madame Kelli

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