I've always felt most comfortable deferring to others. I'm not saying my interests and wants don't matter (they definitely do!) but I've always felt a burning to make others happy. I like clear direction and approval of authority figures around me. A pat on the head, a nod maybe a cookie here or there. Even just a smile can make my day.
I guess that's what led me to a lot of places where I am today. I've always found it easier to submit to what makes others happy than to push very hard for the things I want out of other people. It's like sales - I cannot and will not be happy or successful pushing people to do things they don't want.
To this point in my life I haven't found a lot of satisfaction in where I am. I've had success and failure but I do feel like something is missing.
More generally - I like to laugh and to make others laugh especially. I'm always going to try to find levity in a situation.
I'm scared out of my mind to put a picture up on a site or to send one before I know someone really well. I'm paranoid about future employers asking me about something like this site. I'm fine with being honest about who I am, what I look like. So please ask and I'll tell you what I look like. Lying on a site like this is an extreme waste of time, so I understand your lack of faith but once I answer honestly it's not hard to read who is and is not telling the truth.
I'm most interested in a mentor and friend, though I'm open to many other things. I haven't tried very many things - so I'm sure there are a ton I fantasize about that are terrible and things I seem repulsed by that work out much better than I would imagine. Within limits, of course. Ask!
I like conversations. I like when people copy-edit their profile and don't have spelling errors (though I'm sure because I've said that, I'll screw up and have one in here.) I love to correct and be corrected.
3/11/2016 5:26:57 PM
Is it wrong to get turned off by all those saying they are superior? I'm just a sub, you're not a different species. I'm still great. I hope you are too. I'm not dirt just because you are more assertive than I am.
2/7/2016 1:38:44 PM
I've always dreamt of wagering with a lot of kinks with someone. Anyone game?
