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"Every man needs a woman when his life is a mess, because just like in a game of chess, the QUEEN protects the king." Are there any sincere subs out there who are not fixated with an unrealistic image of a Domme and not addicted to the high of meeting new ones? I am referring to down to earth men who function well both in and out of the BDSM world and are NOT players. I can spot the players in a nano second! The submissive I am looking for must accept his submissiveness as part of his personality and relish in his role in a D/s relationship. This is someone who accepts his position and thrives in a female led relationship that is ultimately symbiotic if power is really relinquished. I am looking for a mentally healthy male who is successful in the vanilla world, educated, intelligent, honest, introspective, and ready to commit to this fulfilling union. I am a career woman who is also educated, resourceful, intuitive, spiritual and attractive. I am not into the extreme aspect of this lifestyle and prefer a private, monogamous relationship. I have a strong vanilla life which is satisfying; however, privately, I would like to be in a relationship where I am in charge. If you have class, sincerity, and a true desire to explore this side of your personality in a loving, mutually-satisfying committed relationship, you may respond to this message. If not, do not waste my time. This also includes if you are inclined to send nude photos, have spelling or grammatical errors in your profile, or take pictures of yourself with your laundry strewn about your room. You are approaching a Domme, and your message/photo should reflect your respect.
I should also mention that I have a particular fondness for novices. I like to train and mould the subbie into what I want and ultimately leave my mark on him. I want to introduce him to my paddle, my strap-on, my plugs, impaler, and swing to mention a few toys I like to play with on occasion. Pain sluts need not apply although I do believe in spanking as a training and punishment tool. No sissies please.
2/10/2013 11:08:43 AM

Sat in a management meeting last week and imagined domming the most senior person at the table. It was, shall I say, stimulating!

5/21/2012 8:11:46 PM

Watched "Girl with the Dragon Tattoo" last week and absolutely loved how the protagnoist sought revenge on her abuser. A woman after my own heart!