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MaitreDocent

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Partner with a Retired Professor of Sexual and Behavioral Sciences

Greater Seattle-Everett WA area. Perfect live-in match for a student or someone with secretarial skills that would also like to live a Polyamorous lifestyle. More than willing to talk about our possible fit. An excellent opportunity for a free-spirited submissive. Nice apartment with recreational facilities and modern conveniences. Would expect some secretarial capabilities.

Since I am a non-possessive, polyamorous dominant, I find it intriguing to assist submissives into relationships with same-aged dominants or switches. I am also a strong believer in our community clubs and advocacy https://www.ncsfreedom.org

For the sake of discretion, I prefer to talk online with someone if they want to see my face, listen to me and see if I "am" who I say I am.

Please feel free to ask me any questions as well. I am not going to be aggressively domineering or attempt to humiliate or degrade you while we are seeing if we have a fit. That is not what, in my world, defines a sexual submissive. M

11/24/2017 12:11:02 AM
About Profile Categories

Since this profile offers the opportunity for a live-in Dominant-Submissive partnership with little ("room, board and toys") cost in a comfortably Polyamorous fashion (potential for us choosing other partners that meet your interest)--I want to refine the categories to be more transparent and accurate:
1. Diversions & Athletics. I enjoy more metro than 30'ish outdoor recreational antics. As I said, my partner preferences are Dominant-submissive (not Master-slave) and have always had partners who pursue their own interests.
2. BDSM 1-3. I have a wide variety of experiences and choose those that are most able to increase and deepen an individual partner's arousal. You must be willing to learn to talk from that primitive inner experience you find there--It is my responsibility for the path to subspace and helping you find a way to communicate what you find there.
3. Intellect and Skills. Skills only lists "licenses" for physicians. I am a Licensed Psychologist--not interested much in clinical analysis type as much as what is called developmental-existential. Who someone is fascinates me; always has and always will. (hence the "conversational subspace, see 2)
4. Lifestyles. Well, if 40 years in the Kink/BDSM Lifestyle hasn't brought me exposure to the personalities and practices that most partners enjoy--I would be surprised. Since I lived through the years of the actual 50's Lifestyle and my own home was a lot like "Father Knows Best"-I am comfortable in parts of those households that work with modern (feminist) revisions. Reference: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wpWgxrAqOYI&list=PLiLkLO1NS14NaRNDzI7S7w7cTJ6iUUZjq
But most of all, I am a big believer in true Polyamory. I practice a Sapiosexual type of Pansexualty (again, reference subspace nonverbal and verbal communication, 2 above); which helps to fully develop a submissive's lifestyle personality. Or that is how most of my previous partners seem to describe it. In addition, many of those same submissives under 40, probably at least half, rounded out our world with partners who had a more physically controlling and highly penetrative type of intimacy. I partner well with both Lesbian and Bisexual dominants; as well as younger Doms who enjoy being mentored (as I was). 
4. Music. As a Developmental Psychologist (which includes a belief in Feminist Psychology) I can't buy into Rap. On the other hand, the political activism of Reggae--I'm all in. I love music with lyrics--early rock, folk and country. On the other hand, I love both Blues and Jazz & the partners who can help me appreciate them.

That's pretty much it. Send me an email if you wish. I am wary of non-paid websites, so accept my skepticism. But Collarspace is a wider (including international) community than most, including those with paid memberships. If you read this far, you have captured my interest--even if I never hear from you!


spanksfromHim
 
 Age: 36
 Miami, Florida