New at this, but can be a solution for me as High Sensation Seeker in thoughts, feelings and respect. Still looking for the good way. I believe that spoiling a girl in public and getting sexual fantasies in return can be the way it works. Man always wants something in return for favours.
Always had problems in relationships, though I know I have the heart on the right place. My partners limits were far lower than mine and I couldn't find the words to make them understand what I need. Still they all loved me and I loved them, but it was hard to keep myself under control and it ended all in frustrations from my side
I was never realy into bdsm but still i like to have sexual control most of the time and I find it important that my partner enjoys and pushes her limits with me. At the end it could be that some bdsm aspects will be there.
