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| We are an attractive, fit, clean couple interested in exploring the darker side of sexual pleasure. Having checked out the scene for a few months now, and talked with and met a few people, we are getting a clearer picture of what we are looking for, so it is time to update:
We are not looking for single sub men or sub women.
Couples: in our limited experience so far we have found that, whatever is being sought, it is generally the man’s idea and the woman is just going along with it. Now, there is nothing wrong with wanting to please your partner, but it would be nice to have a sense that she has a voice and desires of her own. Also, it seems that most couples, especially those with Dom men, are interested in playing with my wife only. While watching can be exciting, we are most interested in people who want to play with us both. Femdom and Dom/Domme couples are most definitely desired—but again, it would be great if it were an expression of her true self, not her playing out some fantasy to keep him happy. Oh, and a confession: we are not keen on feminized men; men in women’s clothing reminds us of Monty Python (dating ourselves) and makes us laugh…sorry!
Single Dom men: there are so many of you out there, we can afford to be very selective. You must be fit, articulate, and respectful. You need to leave your ego at the door: I am not your "boy", and we are not going to be your slaves. My wife in not interested in pain or humiliation; she wants to be cherished, played with, petted, exposed, explored, taken. Imagine your cheesy harlequin novel: she’s running through the woods in a thick velvet dress, trying to get away while desperately hoping to be caught. (Laugh if you want—we are as I write this—but it pretty much captures where she is at). Or, if you go more for “serious” literature, think Henry Miller and Anaïs Nin. To put it more basically, she is not so much submissive as she is passive—she likes others to have control. Your mind will be the sex organ that turns her on. If she likes what you have to say, we might play together.
Single Domme women—all six of you out there—are always welcome to contact us. My wife would be very interested in watching and learning from you as you work with me in whatever manner is your own. And she is open to participating too, as long as it does not involve pain or humiliation (for her, that is; for me, well, you go girl!), injury, blood, scat, children, small mammals, or men in tights.
Okay, now that we have come off as total snobs, I will ask you to try to believe that we really are relaxed, playful and fun to be with. And we would like others to have a similar mindset—meaning that, while we do take things seriously while in role, this is not a lifestyle for us, but play. We are both working professionals looking to fulfill fantasies while maintaining our regular lives. Discretion is absolutely imperative.
Oh, and before any meeting, we will send a face photo, and expect the same.
So, in sum, we are not seeking:
--submissive single men or women
--people who are cheating on a partner (been there, never a good thing)
--people who are not interested in playing with us both
--people whose principal interest is in inflicting heavy pain (nothing against it, just not our thing)
--heavy drug users or drunks (we like to party, but if we are going to give you control over either of us, you need to be in control of yourself)
--people with bad hygiene or grooming (does this really need to be said?)
--people hoping to find their one true love in either of us (sorry, we are committed to each other)
--people who are sexist, racist, classist or homophobic (while no one is without bias, if you are very uncomfortable around people who are quite different from you, you are probably not for us)
--people who lack imagination (if your only pictures on this site are of genitalia, you might not be for us)
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