I choose to live this lifestyle 24/7, I have little interests in bedroom dominance, pure S/M or even the limiting factors of many D/s relationships. Limits are simple; your limits are My limits. Your body is My body. Your mind is My mind. My joy comes from knowing I can take My partner anywhere without hesitation, to know that I have the ability to do with them as I will and to use My power to mold, care, cherish, shape and grow My partner. Together we both grow, we are both stronger, we are both better.

(Medical limits are, of course, respected, but fear will not be a limiting factor)

I am a firm, demanding, but caring and compassionate Dominant. I have never been vanilla and have been exploring the world of D/s and S/M since before I even knew what to call it. I like to laugh, tell jokes, go out with friends, party (kinky and otherwise) and appreciate the joys of the world around me. I take pride in My work, My accomplishments and My abilities as a Dominant, as a professional and as a human being.

I am now entering My fourth year as a member of the SWO (South Western Ontario) Kink community and have expanded my horizons to become a respected international presenter and educator, as well as the Chief DM for the largest Ontario Kink convention (Twisted, formerly TOKink) which brings participants from around the world. I am well experienced in almost all forms of play, including almost all areas of edge play (incl. piercing, cutting, fire play, electrical play and breath play), but My real interest lies within the mind; intense power exchange, head space manipulation, mental conditioning, fear play, and limit pushing. I find great joy getting inside My partners heads and showing them amazing places they never thought existed. I am a very intense individual with a fun-loving exterior.

On an artistic note, I love rope bondage for its free lowing ability to express My artistic creativity and to create things of beauty. I love suspension and am considered the authority on rope suspension in the SWO community. I have many references and would be willing to supply them upon request.

I am currently in a very comfortable place in My life, and am surrounded by many people I care for. That being said I am always searching for the right primary (as I have been for a very long time). I have no interest in rushing into anything nor am I on a quest. Trust is key to developing the type of relationship that I require, and trust can only be developed with time. With that being said I would be looking for a young, completely submissive or slave-oriented women, who considers themselves attractive and in decent shape. Flexibility is advantageous for where I want to go with My bondage expressions. Play partners and friends are also welcomed, as you can never have enough friends. Experience level is of no concern, I take pride in training new submissives and take pleasure in watching them discover who they truely are.