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Madbastard


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	Females only, feel free to view the profile. No males or trans. ***************************************************** Illusions Out of the chaos, out of the mind of madness Being woven from the essence of one's dreams Comes the power of desire, the strength of passion And in that moment, all becomes real, it seems. But only with the strength of one's belief And acceptance of the offered solutions Can grant the power of one's life and hope And all else, no matter how nice, are illusions. When one lacks the strength and passions And dreams have no meaning or key One can only live in the "here and now" And, although grey and unyielding, this reality. So, take the joy in your dreams, share the light, But do not doubt, for in those dark shades, Comes the shattering of your illusions, The death of dreams, and then...a masquerade. But in that lie, you weave and create, The smallest of illusions, the sweetest bliss, For you can accept the sorrows of the world And share it's pain, but yield your happiness. The Ramblings of the Mad Bard (yes, a personally written poem by Me) ****************************************************** If you want Me to respond, read the profile first, then message Me. On several occasions, I have tried to enter the chat rooms and see what is there, but when I click on the link, all it does is spin and spin, never opening. So, I have given up trying to enter those rooms. I have contact info below, so if people are interested, they can look Me up. First, if I send a message or make a comment, it is simply that, a comment that something intrigues Me. It is not a come on or a hit upon. When I see something that I appreciate, I do like to let that person know. Second, I was raised a old school Southern Gentleman, which means courtesy and manners are extremely important to Me. If you are of the opinion that courtesy and manners are a sign of weakness, then you are not only wrong, but a waste of My time & energy. Third, there are two worlds out there, the world of D/s, where I would say a good many of us would like to reside; and the real world, "the Master of Us All". Like it or not, We all have to function in the real world. So, if people are wanting freebies of cash or other physical objects in the real world, move on. I will not be giving away things until I get to know the person a whole lot better than some digital exchanges without any value other than trying to stroke My ego. I am after someone else who works in the real world, has outside interests in the real world, and values what I offer in the world of D/s. If this does not apply to you, then I guess we do not have that initial building block to build any foundations, thanks for reading the profile. Fourth, if there is adequate interest, then there is a progression that I would want to follow. First stage, chatting and emails to get to know the interests both in and out of the world of D/s. Second, there will be phone calls as soon as both are comfortable with the mutual interest. Lastly, I am not opposed to traveling to or receiving visitors here, but that would need to be discussed and planned in advance. Moderate travel distance for Me would be couple of hours, either flights or drive (even with the relatively high gas costs). My definition of D/s is the decision making for the relationship, and also which decisions are to be made by the Dominant and which are mutual decisions. I am not into micromanagement, but will share MY expectations and desires. Also, what consequences are made are the actions that are against the established decisions of the relationship. I am not one to take actions that are pleasurable to the submissive for direct contrary actions to established decisions. That is not to say that if I am inattentive to the needs of the submissive does not need to be brought to My attention through some action, but there needs to be some rules when this is appropriate. I have a passion for Restraint and Control, loving to bind girls, making them totally and completely helpless. Control comes in many forms, and would use many techniques, from light spankings (not into the pain games) to showing the submissive's responses to being helpless, to even friendly name calling (not into the shame games, aka humiliation), but there has to be a mutual passion for restraints. My personal favorite for bondage positions is the frogtie/hogtie combination. By minor adjustments to the cinching, it allows for ultra tight and exposed bodies to potential long term bondage, with just enough room to allow the girl to flex her legs & arms and arch her back. I love to share and discuss bondage experiences, offering advice and sharing what I know about bondage and tying a girl up. If you have questions about bondage, you can send Me a message, or see the contact information below. Not interested in married girls, committed to another person, or tattoos and piercings. I am single, never married and no children. I am very monogamous, and possessive, thus "loaning out" will never happen. I also do not believe in rape or violence, even in a mock or game scenarios. I am definitely not into males of any sorts. Intelligence, well spoken and willing to communicate (not in text speak) are things that interest Me. You would be surprised how people like to see complete sentences and correctly spelled words. Ideally, My perfect girl would be younger than Me. She should be slightly to moderately extroverted (as I can be an old stick in the mud from time to time) and engaging to Me. She should be as passionate to bondage as I am, and enjoy both intense short term bondage and mild to moderate long term bondage. Although I do have a passion for the Asian appearance (a big plus), that is not a primary concern. She should be into active pursuits, hiking, walking, camping, etc. Runners and other athletic activities would be helpful, but would take Me time to catch up to her level. I am looking for a long term relationship, but that can only come in time, so am not into Online Role Playing or such. Been there, done that...and it does not amuse Me any more. Feel free to message Me even if you simply want to discuss Bondage. I enjoy educating and sharing experiences. I have tried to enter the chat rooms on many occasions, and each time it just spins and spins, so I have given up on chatting in those rooms, although for some reason, the one on one chat sessions work. But I am available elsewhere. On Yahoo Communicator, I am maddbard (which does have an old picture of Me). ON FL, I am MadBard. I also own a chatroom on Bondage.com, #Bound`Gagged`Girls, nick is Mad^Bard. If you want to chat, be sure to immediately say that you saw My profile here. More will be forthcoming as I fill out the details. As far as the world outside of D/s, I do play EQ. I prefer the casters in the world of EQ. I do enjoy outside activities, but not as active in the outdoors as I used to be, due to many factors (the hard ground is not as fun as it used to be when I was 30). But I do enjoy walking and hiking. I would like the person who I do find in the future to be into outdoors activity, so as to encourage Me to become more active. Under no circumstances is this photo or anything written here is to be used other than viewing for this website's patrons. I do not consent to share this photo for any other purposes other than this purpose.

4/10/2013 9:02:30 PM

Dawn,
The world stirs,
Birds sing and fly,
The morning mist blurs,
As we open our eyes.

The day begins, tasks to do,
Choices made, we begin anew.
Relentless, time moves on,
Decisions made, things get done.
Though fleeting time escapes,
Each of us moves at our own pace.

Dusk,
The world sleeps,
Stars take their place,
As night's cloak creeps,
Again, time has won the race.

We ponder at the days events,
We worry at tomorrow's laments,
We laugh at the simple joys,
We seek love, girls and boys,
We look back at the list undone,
We see ahead, tomorrow's begun.

Night,
The world dreams,
Color and hue, light and dark,
Joys and terrors, plans and schemes,
Or maybe just an untamed thought.

Ramblings of the Mad Bard...written 4/10/2013

3/16/2013 9:56:16 AM

Odd thing happened today, was blocked for seemingly no reason other than viewing a profile. Never said anything to this person other than maybe an introduction previously, and to the best of My knowledge, she never viewed My profile. So, the only option left Me was to block her, so she would hopefully never appear on My list again. Most women tend to ignore My greetings, and that is part of life, but to be blocked for simply viewing. (Now, according to her log files, was recently having issues (sick and professional problems), and if I were going to respond, would offer best wishes only, but now, cannot even do that token gesture.

So, thought about it, and will start a policy of blocking Myself, just to try to keep from offending others and to try to keep My life simpler. If they say they're not interested, they try to play mind games, they reply saying to 'relocate me' or 'send me money/assets' or 'negotiate for my services with a third party', or simply not what I find interesting. All these things will immediately be blocked.