I am thinking of leaving the BDSM schtick is because of the mind.
In so many ways are we not asking women (well all subs) to abrogate their mind to the will of another (the Dom/Domme). I guess I am having problems with that.
I want a woman who can think. Who will set her mind on cruise control or be an idiot. Even if it is an idiot savant when it comes to sex, that type of woman is the worst of all women.
The mind of the person is to be honored as well as the personhood of that person. IF this makes sense to you, please send me a message.
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