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MacMasterXXX

For those with a need, I've used Hypnosis in the past to help novices overcome their fears and increase their pleasure. Due to tech reasons I can't chat! Don't ask.
I should begin by saying I am NOT an extremist in any phase of my life. I would be classified as a moderate by most people and practise SSC D/s and BDSM. And, of course, I enjoy spanking naughty girls. I need to be clear that the ability to carry on an intelligent conversation is mandatory - not optional. I'm sure you understand my picture not being clear, I would be happy to provide better on an individual basis.

I am actively seeking a sub/slave for a LTR, eventually to lead to marriage. My children are all out of the house so a live-in situation is possible. If you have children, I would have no problem having an extended family. If you can have/want more children, I would consider that an asset. Family is always my first priority. I enjoy quiet times with the family(whatever size family that may be),classic cars, woodworking in my shop, a variety of music, and my dog. I prefer an intelligent, fair(red a plus), petite woman who is possibly on the "shy quiet" side. Novices always welcome. I am VERY patient while training and enjoy it done slowly.
I appreciate the gift of submission and believe force should not normally be required in a loving D/s relationship (unless the "scene" calls for it). That doesn't mean there won't be liberal use of paddles, crops, etc. I am NOT looking for game playing or one night stands, and I'm not looking for a slut(of any kind). Additional Hard Limits include scat and any scene even remotely involving children.

Honesty is a prime factor with me. I give it freely, and I expect no less in return.

D/D free of course...expect the same!

Even if you don't meet the above description, attitude is what matters most with me. Contact me and let's see what happens
4/22/2007 1:21:41 PM
I have been on this sight for a while now and I want to thank all the subs/slaves I have contacted that have taken the time to have a typed conversation with me to explore possibilities, and the ones who have been courteous enough to at least reply "Thank You, but No Thank You".
Now, for all the others who can't even acknowledge that you have taken the time to look through all the possible sub/slaves, picked out a few that have compatibility potential (which is often difficult to determine due to lack of info!), written a courteous inquiry and awaited a reply to no avail..... It's unfortunate your mothers were too busy/absent/or uncaring to teach you BASIC manners.
I'm well aware there are some very crude so called Dom/mes out here who don't have the IQ God gave a gnat that will verbally degrade you to extremes, if you don't reply the way they want you to, that deserve no reply. However, there are a lot more Dom/mes out here that are reasonably intelligent and DON'T start a conversation "On Your Knees Bitch".
I'm sure I'll have more to say later. For you with manners....Have a Wonderful Day! For all of you who have no concept of what common courtesy is...I sincerely hope you get the Dom/me you deserve.
VanessaO
 
 Age: 40
 Johannesburg, South Africa