I was introduced to the BDSM lifestyle 10 years ago. I still have much to learn and by no means consider myself an expert. I believe that everyone always has more to learn, both about themselves and those around them. No two people are ever the same, and likewise, no two experiences are.

I have not always been active in the lifestyle, and I have yet to be seen at fet parties and clubs. I have been to munches and was involved with social club called Tops and bottoms a few years ago, but recently I have been out of the lifestyle.

I do have certain activities I enjoy, but there are many more that I have yet to experience. And, as I have mentioned, an activity experienced with one partner will be very different when experienced with another.

I am in search of someone with whom I can learn and grow. They should be willing to explore many avenues, allow me to lead them to the depths of experience, with assurance that I will bring them back... safe.