Sorry that there isn't a pic right now, there will be one of me soon. I am 40 that has been in the lifestyle in the closet for a long time. I have just met a few people here recently that have shown me that it is ok to be open about it. I am bi and my husband is not happy about that as well and he is real new to this so I am looking for someone that is somewhat in the same boat as I am that doesn't mind exploring. I enjoy being the dom and a few of the other things as well. I am not trying anything funny