mstr4someone on Collarspace

7/4/2004 8:23:27 PM

I might be talking this the wrong way but every profile I have read so far dealing with a sub or slave is what she wants. I always thought that a sub or slave please was to please her Dom,Master and Mistress not the other way around. When you have a sub/slave that takes good care of her Master/Dom and Mistress everything else would fall into place. Whatever happen to giving up total control? Not saying a sub or slave shouldn't have limits everyone should what I am saying is this. A sub/slave is there to please her Master not the other way around. Yes sub have rights but only the rights her Master gives her and they can be taken away just a easy as they was given. Now dealing with a slave I feel she too has only the rights her Master gives her. Some subs/Master feel slave should have no rights but don't agree with that she is human just like her Master is and has feeling and needs too. Being contorling over someone doesn't make you a Master. Being submissive doesn't make you a sub or slave either. There is so much more to being in this lifestyle that no one person has all the answer. But do know this if you treat your sub/slave with repect you will get so much more in return.