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I have been a part of the BDSM lifestyle off and on for nearly a decade now, but I still haven't quite found exactly what I'm looking for. I enjoy chatting with those who're new to the lifestyle, or maybe just curious and not sure what they like, or where it might take them. I have helped quite a few new subs/slaves to learn more about the BDSM lifestyle, and explore their interests, learning more about themselves at the same time. I have owned 3 slaves over a number of years, and focus more on the mental domination aspects of D/s, the subtler interactions between two people who love owning/being owned. There are also many kinky and erotic games that can be enjoyed with a willing girl, to build anticipation, emphasise control, and heighten pleasure. ;-) I'm also interested in a rope bunny who would enjoy Me expanding My shibari repertoire on her body, with or without any other interaction.

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11/17/2013 11:23:33 PM

Why do I enjoy teaching new girls? Interesting question...there's a few reasons.

 - To help keep new girls safe, so they don't walk away from the lifestyle. Helping people is a good thing, new girls who don't know enough about the lifestyle are more vulnerable than they realise to the pretenders, players and predators on a site like this, and I'd rather there were more subs entering (and staying in) this lifestyle, not less.

 - I enjoy it. My focus with a sub/slave is less on activities, and more about interaction. And while it's not as fun without the control, teaching a new girl is still a form of interaction, that can include a mild D/s component. Better than chatting with some random nilla in a misc chatroom, or other dating site!

 - Yes, there is the chance of it going further than just teaching. I don't expect anything particular to come from introducing a new girl to some BDSM basics, but if we suit each other, I'm open to considering something more. That teaching stage is a good way to learn more about someone, and consider if they might be suitable, or not.


7/27/2013 2:07:24 AM

Tip for subs/slaves...think about who you're writing your profile for. The idiots you try to convince not to contact you, will do so anyway. But if your profile is written for them...what reason is there for anyone else to do so?

 

Think about what you're writing, target it at the people you WANT to contact you, and make use of the Mail Controls esp for things like ages. I hate seeing a profile full of shouting by someone who targets their profile at people they don't want...


5/9/2012 1:21:43 AM

I think I first ran across this many years ago from a sub's journal post. Unfortunately, the original was lost years ago...but has been salvaged by more than one site since then.

 

I strongly recommend this for any (potential) sub or slave who is starting their journey in the BDSM lifestyle, and many of us with more experience could learn a little from it also, or at least find some food for thought.

 

http://marywhispers.blog.com/?page_id=1528

 

 

Feel free to email Me if you'd like to discuss it. :-)

(Edit: Found the Acid Test elsewhere, and updated URL, after the old link died)


5/8/2012 11:55:00 PM

I think it surprises most of us sometimes, how much effort it takes to find a partner on dating sites. Men have to contact hundreds, maybe thousands, to get suitable responses. Women have to wade through all those - no doubt missing a number who could be suitable in the process.

 

It takes time and effort...and especially on a site like this, so many are not genuine, in one way or another. One thing I would suggest to the female subs struggling to find someone genuine...if someone makes the effort to write a substantial email that isn't obviously cut'n'pasted, try to take the time to read it, and/or reply.

 

The lack of replies is pro'ly the main reason the real Doms stop bothering. I expect the same is true for other roles, but cannot say from My own knowledge.

 

(Of course, the chances of anyone reading this for whom it's relevant, and taking heed, are slim to non-existent...but miracles do happen, or so I've heard!)


1/9/2012 1:01:08 AM

While I enjoy teaching those new to the BDSM lifestyle a little about what it's all about, and how to spot some of the pretenders, players and predators that are out there abusing those who lack the experience to identify them - the respect and appreciation I get for this is limited, at best.

 

At the moment, I am not open to a new relationship, and not even seeking friends for the moment. If someone genuine contacts Me seeking teaching only (not training, that would be more intense, personal, and in person), I will probably respond to an extent that matches their level of enthusiasm and respect.

 

Not open to anything else for the time being. No relationships, no play.


3/9/2011 8:39:53 PM

And CM is living up to it's reputation in classic style.

 

If you're wondering why you can't find a genuine Dom/Master, chances are they got so fed up with the lack of responses they walked away in disgust. If you don't have the respect and consideration to reply to a msg sent to you, what makes you think you're deserving of something special?

 

If any genuine subs/slaves want to contact me, you're better off looking for me on F L as M_Paul. I think 1 week every 2-3 years is about as much CM as I can stand.

 

(Edit: Yes, that site name gets censored)


3/7/2011 1:18:27 AM

Hint to any genuine subs/slaves who might be on this site - when you find a partner, or if you're not really looking for any reason - edit the section of your profile titled "ACTIVELY seeking", not just the text description. There's a reason why one of those words is emphasised, and showing up in searches by those who really ARE actively seeking does you no favours.


12/1/2009 5:52:22 AM
In case anyone is wondering, the photos of the lady in black tied up, are from some earlier Shibari classes (Japanese rope bondage) taught by Satomi. This tie is called a takatekote - both pics are actually the same tie, with slightly different placement.

The lady in question does not belong to Me, though she did give her permission for Me to use these pics of My work on her.

Would be nice to find someone to take My Shibari further on...:-)

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