Well back in Chicago after little over a year in Florida! My take on life?...MMM. Being in a D/s relationship, does not mean you can't have fun and enjoy yourself. Actually, that is exactly what this lifestyle is about. Being who you are, and enjoying every minute of it. It doesn't mean having a "dark" attitude or wasting your time with a silly screen name or calling yourself "Master This" or "Lord That" and barking out orders, telling someone you don't know to kneel and degrade them. But instead to truly find out what a sub/slave is seeking. Getting to know that person from the inside out, starting with their mind. You have to stimulate the mind, before you can stimulate anything else. Get to the core of what and who they are and what they need. Sometimes, you might just find the time to enjoy something together, laugh, and have fun! But everything is subjective, and every relationship, is as unique as those within. As I have gotten older I have learned to appreciate all the little things that are taken for granted, and excepting a great gift of submission, by a woman, strong enough to know what she wants, and offer it to someone. Accepting the seriousness of being offered, and appreciating what is expected of you by your sub/slave.
My tastes lean toward the sophisticated an unconventional with my interests spanning the arts, intellectual discourse, politics, psychology, philosophy, the arts, horses, cars and music. I am endlessly fascinated by the darker side of human nature, and amused by its ironies and absurdities. Being non judgemental and open minded, I find balance in life's complexities through maintaining simple and basic values. I am very passionate in what I set off to do, but not obsessive.