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My name is Chris.

I am 42 years old, married with a sub wife, and I am now seeking a new fledgling sub to help them find their wings, regardless of their age.. I see no point in making demands or expecting acts of submission before any agreement has been reached, and I am happy to spend time talking, on-line or in real life to anyone who gets in touch with me and decides they are interested and want to explore things further. To my mind it is stupid not to take the trouble finding out what we have in common, in D/s and otherwise, before any decision or commitment is made. I think this is the best way to proceed both for you and for me.

I am not looking for a slave. What appeals to me is a woman who has intelligence, who has her own ideas and interests and who knows how to think. D/s is a choice we make, not something that is decided for us.


I have some hard limits: no children, scat and no extreme violence. Outside of these everything is negotiable. I know there are a lot of frauds and wannabes on here, it is a story I have heard far too often not to believe it. So even though this quite rightly prompts a 'he would say that wouldn't he' I am completely genuine. I am not interested in cyber, I am looking for a sub to learn with and to train. I am also happy to meet for coffee or a drink on a no-strings, no expectations basis to see if the chemistry is right.

I want to make a few things absolutely clear though.
While I am happy to spend time talking and getting to know anyone who contacts me and appears genuine, once our discusions are finished and agreement reached I will expect you to be completely obedient and compliant.

I am not looking for 24/7 I think that D/s, just like vanilla relationships, need time to test them and find out just what they are worth.

If this sounds about right to you then get in touch and we can talk.
tracemars
 
 Age: 38
 Ft. Lauderdale, Florida