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To any submissive trying to speak with Me. Read My Journal and follow the Rules of Contact before you do so. Anything other than that polite and well written letter that I seek will not be getting My attention.
I am a Dominant woman seeking a LTR with the right sub/slave. My slave would need to be clean, obedient and willing to do pretty much anything for his Mistress. I want as close to a 24/7/365 relationship as is really possible. Yes, My sub/slave would have to Obey Me at all times, but there would still be room in the relationship for laughter, movies and down time where we just relax. My hard limits are snuff, blood, blades, needles, or anything that would do permanent harm. No children, age play, diapers, no scat. I'm really not into someone who wants to be in a cage, abused or snuffed. I prefer My boy to be male, alive and naked most of time. Most important, I'm simply not quite that much of a sadist, although I do enjoy whipping My sub/slave regularly. My sub/slave must be drug & disease free, definately a non-smoker, since he would never be able to smoke around Me. I have no body type or ethnic preferences. I want a sub/slave within about 10 years of My own age. Exceptions made if I like you enough (but very unlikely). If you feel up to the challenge of Serving Me, let Me know. Be polite, well written and follow any instructions that you are given. Make sure you read My profile & journal carefully. If you can't comply with what I want or don't want to serve a BBW, move along. If you just want to play games and have a sexy chat online, you can also just move along. I'm not into wasting My time on players. Also, proper grammar and spelling are good, as I would like a sub who can converse with intelligence when we are in "down time". I am not looking to relocate, so you must be willing to come to Me. If you give a date to show and don't show, that's it, I won't even talk to you again. One chance, that's all you get, boys. I am not a professional nor am I looking for a money slave. I can take care of Myself in that area. Besides that, all you need to know is that I am all about the control, having it and most definitely using it.
If you are the right person for Me, it is likely you will not be needing to work outside the house. There is plenty of work here for you to do.
MKC
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Ok, facing the world with renewed enthusiasm. I'm sure that somewhere out there, I'll find the ideal boy to make My home a happy one.
Probably moving to the Dallas/Ft. Worth area in the next couple of years. Lots of family out there, so that's a good thing. Hopefully I'll find someone either already there, or willing to move there. Lots of jobs there at least.
If you wish to approach Me, feel free. Just make sure that you are respectful and know how to write a letter of introduction about yourself. "You're beautiful, will you spank my ass?" is NOT a proper hello. |
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As I continue to search for the right pet for My household, I wonder if such a creature exists if you live outside of a major city. It seems that males love the idea of serving if it doesn't inconvenience their lives overly much. If they have that attitude, then why bother looking? If you say hello to a Lady, try to be polite and up front about your ability to move. While I might consider moving to the Dallas/Ft. Worth area, there isn't really anywhere else I'd consider moving myself. Since I have close family there, it's a remote possibility. So please, be honest. Honesty is the #1 way to a Lady's heart.
And speaking of honesty. If the only time a boy has time to talk is the middle of the night his time, then he's obviously married or already in some sort of relationship. If he can't talk during the day, then there is a problem. I will not tolerate cheaters and liars. No Lady will.
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Well, it's been a long few months. I haven't been online for awhile (for those that messaged and didn't receive a reply). Still looking for that special boy. I hope you all had a safe and happy holiday season.
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One more thing. YOU MUST BE A US RESIDENT, PLEASE!
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It's been a long time since I've had the time and energy to spend any time here. Too many posers and fakes waste my time. Working 12 hours a day doesn't leave a lot of leisure time spend perusing the profiles of hopeful boys. Still looking for the boy of My dreams. I've found a few very real, very wonderful boys here, but for one reason or another (usually the distance from where they are to where I am) it doesn't seem to work out. So I've decided that it's time to move away from this remote location. Yes, at some point in the next 2 years or so I plan on moving. If it's nice enough where you are and is an affordable area to live in, I might consider moving to where some lucky professional boy lives. Yes, I mean professional, as in working a good job. I don't expect to be supported, but I work much too hard for My money to support anyone else, either. Fortunately for Me, My work is over the internet. So I can move at will.
This is a test. If you are truly interested in Me, please send Me a well written letter explaining why you think W/we would be a good fit for one another. I can read your profile to see what kind of lifestyle you are into. Now show Me what kind of person you are.
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Yet another year has gone by without finding the boy I want to make part of My life. Which is sad. Oh I have plenty of offers for part time visits. For a "fly by" type relationship where when and how we play depends on the boy's schedule. That doesn't work for Me. I want someone HERE, under My rule, doing as I want. I will provide the RIGHT boy a job, a place to live. All I ask in return is not to have someone play idiot games with Me.
You want to get serious? Send Me a letter explaining why you are interested in Me. Expalin what you want and need out of a relationship. Be realistic. Serving doesn't involve endless time in bondage or on your knees in Service. It involves being a real person, dealing with a real person. Are you ready for that??
Lady Kacy
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I keep getting messages from people who I've not been speaking with. I'm guessing someone hacked My ID. I've changed my password, so hopefully that won't keep happening.
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I keep getting asked about marriage. Males from foreign countries keep saying "hi". Not into getting married at any time in for forseeable future. I am not into non-productive chatting. I work 14 hours a day. This means, when I'm not working, I don't want to be at the computer. When I AM working, I generally don't have TIME to chat. Honestly, what makes you males think that I am willing to bend over, change My life and do things your way? I'm the Dominant, not the submissive. I don't go for males that can't read and follow instructions. If you can't be literate and follow orders, please leave Me the heck alone. If you want to try and run things, admit you are a mashochistic Dominant who simply wants someone to spank his rear end how and when he wants it. That's not going to be Me, by the way.
NO CHILDREN. By that, I mean, if you have kids, don't bother. I don't want to be momma. I don't play with kids, I don't play with males who have kids. NO SMOKING. I am allergic and it simply won't do. NO DRUNKS. No game players. For pity's sake, what in the world makes you think you have the right to take a Lady's time and waste it with your purient needs? We are NOT here to fulfill your small minded fetishist desires. We are here to find the right boy to Serve Us as WE see fit.
I have said this before, I will say it again. Before you contact Me, read this journal. There are RULES OF CONTACT. If you can't follow the rules, you are obviously NOT a slave. Or a poorly trained or totally inexperience one.
Humboldt County is in the middle of nowhere. It's 5 hours by car from the nearest major cities (no, santa rosa doesn't count). If you intend on contacting Me, check out the area before and think about it seriously. Can you REALLY move that far away from friends, family and your current life? If not, then go find someone LOCAL to you. That's what Munch's and local meetings are for.
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Wow. All I have to say is wow. I can't believe the number of game players that I've delt with in the last year. It's absolutely amazing how much a male wants to chat, but when the chips are down, he doesn't show up. No names, but you know who you are. If you are playing games, leave me alone. If you contact Me, don't be contacting other Mistresses at the same time. If you make a commitment to come and see Me, then say at the last minute you are going to go see someone else, then you are obviously a game player who needs to get a grip.
I AM NOT HERE FOR YOUR PURILE AMUSEMENT. I am here to find a real BDSM relationship. If you can't get with the program, get LOST.
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Rudeness from a submissive to a Dominant. Gameplayers. Those who want nothing more than to play make-believe. These things are inexcusable. All such persons will be ignored.
For everyone else, feel free to
READ MY JOURNAL
and send Me a message. I'll respond with the same courtesy that you extend.
In response to something someone asked in thier journal. Alot of Dominant Women these days are looking first at the vanilla connection because, to be frank, most of the males We encounter are very compatible on a BDSM level. That's what the interests lists are for, that's why we peruse the profiles for those with similar desires. Certainly, the search for someone with similar interests are what we are all here for, I completely agree. HOWEVER. I've run across enough potential slaves with whom I've meshed extremely well in the BDSM front, and failed to make any sort of vanilla, person to person connection. It's why I'm still single.
I have lists of daily duties any slave of Mine would be required to carry out. Many of them are Domestic in nature. I have certain requirements as to behavior that are stringently enforced. Common courtesy is one of them.
As My property, outside of the limits set at the beginning, you are MINE to do with as I please. If this means I want to put you in a closet when you're not cleaning My home or Serving Me in some other fashion, I can and WILL do that. Not that I'm likely to do that. I prefer to have My property close at hand for use in whichever fashion I choose. Sometimes, this is for an intelligent conversation. Sometimes, it's of a more personal nature. Whichever, I must know that you are capable of being of use in either case.
I am a true Lifestyle Dominant. I have no children, nor do I ever plan on having any. I am "out" to my family and friends. I see no reason to hide what I am. I know damn well what use to put any property I own to, and it's never going to be a fantasy life of constant pain/pleasure. That's not reality. OBEDIANCE, however, IS a constant and a MUST.
On that note...
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FOR ALL INTERESTED SUBMISSIVES AND SLAVES: READ MY JOURNAL BEFORE WRITING ME!!!!
It's been awhile since I've updated My journal. I have a couple of things to say. I've been on collarme for awhile now, and have met some really great subs. I've also had the misfortune to run into players who simply wanted to have a little chat to get off or newbies that thought they were ready to face this lifestyle and discovered that when it comes down to it, they are sooo not.
For those who are newbies. Rather than being on this site and approaching Women that are far away and unlikely to ever really be someone that you will meet, you should be trying your local BDSM groups. Especially if you live in or near a major city. Look for your local groups online. Find the munches (safe meetings at public, vanilla venues). Go to them. Meet people. Go to classes and eventually parties. Try the lifestyle out before jumping in with both feet.
For the posers and game players. I've said it before. If you just want to chat, go to a Pro-Domme.
For those that are sincere, I have a couple of things for you to think about. Before approaching Me, note that I am a 5 hour drive away from any major city. I will NOT come to you. I am 11 hours from Los Angeles, 5 from the Bay Area and Portland. Think about that before apporaching Me. I will require a visit within 2 months of your first writing Me. If it works out, I will require you to move here within 6 months of that decision. The sooner the better, though. No game playing, no "please wait, I have a life". So do I, and I'm not terribly patient. I am a for REAL lifestyle Domme.
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Just thought I'd add something in here. I'm not going to go easy on someone. If you come here, the collar and cuffs go on immediately, and the fun times start. I don't want to waste time, I want to see if we can play well together. And if you are really serious about making a lasting realtionship, don't vanish for days at a time without letting Me know why. Because I'm not an afterthought, I'm the main attraction. And if you don't get that, you are not serious enough about this. |
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OK, I am now understanding the aggravation of the other Dommes on the site. Here are some rules for contacting Me, and if you don't follow them, I won't even return you message with a hello.
1. You have to write more than two sentences. Show you are a literate and intelligent person.
2. Before deciding to message Me, look up where I am, Humboldt County CA, and decide FIRST if you can live here. I AM NOT MOVING. EVER.
3. If all you are interested is finding some nice, compassionate soul to chat with you and get you off in an online chat, find a Pro-Domme. These really nice Ladies are at least compensated by your money when you waste their time.
4. If all you are interested is an online Domme, don't bother. I'm into real life, in person play. And I'm not going to wait for weeks an weeks for you to decide you can finally make the time for a visit. Either be serious, or leave Me alone.
5. I'm not going to travel long distances to see you. You have to come to Me. That's the whole point.
6. Respect My limits and I'll respect yours. I am not into very few things, but I'm serious about those limits. And if what you like is not listed as a limit or an interest in My profile, then we can at least discuss if it IS possible.
That's it. Just tired of games and players that appear sooo eager for a day or two, then vanish. I don't have the time to play those games, and I'm not a Pro who gets money for your entertainment. And let Me tell you, online chatting is interesting, but so not worth Me spending hours for no real return. Be real, get with it, or get lost.
For those of you who are real, interested, and not playing games, good for you. Just follow the rules like any good sub or slave does, and we will get along fine.
Mistress Kacy |
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Well, I guess I'm looking again. Oh well. You are a great subbie, and you know who you are. Anyhow, I am continuing to look. I have a few I am interested in, and they know who they are. As for all the other great subs/slaves out there, if you have READ My profile and find Me interesting, please write Me an introductory LETTER, not a few short words. As always, polite introductions will be answered in kind. |
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Well, it's been a wonderful experience. I am currently interviewing someone. I hope things work out. Thanks to all you nice boys out there for your interest. If things don't work with the one I am interviewing, I'll be sure and post that I am available again.
Happy hunting, everyone. |
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Well, this has been an interesting experience thus far. I have met a lot of really nice people here. Intelligent, well written and polite. I appreciate all of you nice subs/slaves out there who have sent Me polite messages.
I wish everyone who has approached Me had been as polite and expressive. Because a two sentence message is unlikely to get My attention. I will politely write back thanks but no thanks.
Another note for those looking at My profile in interest. I am poly. I prefer a college educated slave. I don't mind a switch, but I am in control here, and pushy behavior will not be tolerated. Just because I'm friendly, warm hearted and polite doesn't mean that I can't or won't be cruel when necessary. I am, after all, a sadist. Manners mean a lot to Me, and when you write to Me calling Me Mistress when I don't even know you it ticks Me off. Address Me as Ma'am, Lady or simply MKC. Only My chosen may call Me Mistress.
All right, that was it. I hope we all have the great fortune to find the right partners. Be happy, and good searching. |
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