I'm very experienced in BDSM and learned the lifestyle from some highly skilled people, both male and female. I've played both sides of the table and have reached a point in my life where having control and expecting such in a relationship suits me. I'm not interested in play partners or flings as I can find that easily enough.

Play-wise, I'm rather sadistic and take great pleasure from marking my submissive's body, leaving stripes, bruises and welts that last. I'm creative, enjoy predicament play and various forms of erotic torture. If "slap and tickle bedroom bondage" is your thing, we're probably not a good match.

That being said, I expect an equal in day-to-day life. Someone intelligent, imaginative, silly and fun. Have a passion - even if I don't share it - because it makes you a more interesting and well rounded person.

Write to me, tell me your interests and share with me something unique... I'll do the same.

I have pictures to share but won't post them here; I have a high profile job and one never knows who looks where. But I'm out amongst my friends and active in the community, so this isn't a matter of hiding. Please be in a similar place. I will say that I'm attractive and fit, taking good care of myself by eating well and exercising regularly. You'll have to trust me on this...