I think of myself as a TPE Daddy/Dom. Im excited by and drawn to women who want cuddling, security and taboo thrills from her man. I am a strong, confident man who is comfortable with intimacy, and who is looking for a woman who wants to be cared for and who is secure in herself enough to care for me in return. I am aroused by the notion of taking care of a submissive in a paternal way ensuring that my sub is safe and happy and also excited by assuming the role of father figure and loving authoritarian sitting at the head of the table and making the hard decisions. Lastly, I am turned on by the forbidden nature of having Daddy/daughter roles within a relationship.
A another Daddy e-mail Me this creed. Wish I know who wrote this so I could give him/her credit for it.
A Daddy's Creed
* Above all else a Daddy cherishes his girl , and takes great delight in watching her grow
* A Daddy/little can be demanding and Daddy most times takes full advantage of the power given to them, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift of having a " little "
* A Daddy is in control of themself first and foremost, so that They may control and take control of thier " little ".
* As a stern and demanding yet caring compassionate nurturer , they may cause their babygirl / submissive to cry real tears , but will ALWAYS be there to wipe them away .
* As the consummate lover, They will then kiss the tears away, without stepping out of character.
* In times of trouble, a Daddy will never leave the role behind, and is always there to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals.
* A Daddy is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality.
* A Daddy would never ask His little to put Him before their career, or family, just to satisfy their own pleasure , yet will encourage independance in growth
* To win a " littles " mind, body, spirit, soul, and love, a Daddy knows they must first win their trust.
* A Daddy will show their submissive humour, kindness, and warmth . how to play , when to play , and its not always a sexual nature .
* A Daddy must always show His " little " that their guidance and tutoring is deserving of their attention, that this is a person they can learn from, and that they can trust their direction.
* A Daddy is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, He will fight for Their " little's " honour.
* A Daddy proves to their " little " that His is someone they can lean on, and depend on.
* When it comes time to teach His girl their lessons of obedience, they are a strong and unyielding professor , but always nurturing , loving and patient .
* A Daddy will accept His " little " as she grows but wants the best for her so nothing less than perfection from His " little " will be allowed while she learns .
* Never does a Daddy use discipline without a good reason. When they do punish thier " little's ", it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand.
* A Daddy is always open to communication and discussion; always ready to hear their submissive's wants and needs.
* A Daddy is patient; taking time to learn the limits of His " little " , and knowing that as their trust of them grows, so will they.
* A Daddy understands the fragile nature of mind and body and never violates the trust given to them.
* A Daddy is secure enough to laugh at Himself and the absurdities of life. Open minded enough to learn new things. Strong enough to grow.
* A Daddy's tools are mind, body, spirit, soul, and love. ( and a great set of hands " grins " )
* A true Daddy-Dom is not hesitant to kneel to His submissive/babygirl.little and kiss her hand in honor of her trust, service, and love for Him.
