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| We are a 24/7 TPE, Master/slave COUPLE, seeking playmates. Also looking for that elusive second slave (or s type couple) to add to our family. Possible switches allowed as long as you understand this Master is the "Master of the house". We have a wonderful sense of humor (but it can be a bit sick and twisted), we love to laugh and ENJOY life, travel when we can, enjoy the outdoors, crafts, and other creative endeavors, don't use illegal drugs or alcohol, and most of all we're totally honest. We do a little bit of swinging on the side but not a lot. We aren't wealthy but we have a home and good food, and fun times. We'd love to have that special someone(s) join us either permanently OR just for friendship and fun. No, we cannot send you any money or help you relocate here from far away, but we can offer moral support like you wouldn't believe. Drop us a note. Let us know what you're interested in. Include a photo or two if there are none on your profile please. And most of all be happy (and honest). Life is short. Live it to the fullest. Wishing you all a fantastic day.
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THANK YOU FOR DELETING MY EMAIL TO YOU
Yes, we are still looking for that elusive poly friendly second slave. We did find a part time girl who visits from time to time, but for unrelated issues in other areas of her life she will not be the one who joins us permanently. So if you've got the right attitude and are interested in becoming part of a VERY happy M/s house, please get in touch with me.
The main reason for THIS entry however, is to thank those foolish submissive or slave types I've written to, who when I check my Sent Mail, the message shows up in the list as DELETED UNREAD. HUH? Why would you do that if you're seriously seeking a Dominant?
To be fair, I can see a few valid reasons that could happen. Perhaps you FOUND the one you seek, and are no longer looking. If that is the case your profile should reflect that. Why doesn't it. And were *I* to collar you, I'd still want you, as MY property, to respectfully write to others who wrote to you to THANK THEM for the courtesy (in some cases) of writing to you and showing an interest in the first place. My sub/slave will be respectful when it's appropriate. It COULD also be something they noticed on My profile they didn't like, but 99% of these never bothered to check my profile so that couldn't be it. (I love the Who's Viewing me feature of this site.)
Since it takes at least a reasonable amount of intelligence to serve well, I'm sure you did me a favor by deleting my mail to you. You DID put something in your profile to give me an initial indication that I may have something to offer you but apparently I was mistaken about who you are, since you never bothered to check my profile OR read the mail. There MAY have been something special in it, information wise, that could have been just what you need, and I'm puzzled as to why someone would go to all the trouble to create a profile and then ignore the mail that it instigated. I DO realize that there is a VERY LARGE number of phonies and fakes on the site, but the ONLY good way to separate them from the few of us who really are who we say we are is to read the email you get. Sure, you'll get a lot from losers, but the throwing the baby out with the bath water method isn't very smart.
All of this can only lead me to the conclusion that you yourself, must be a fake. I know it's not anything I've put here in the journal OR anything in my profile OR anything in my email because you didn't bother to check ANY of those. So I'm still left with the puzzle of why you created your profile in the first place. It's obviously NOT for the reason you stated. It would be a favor to all of us if you'd just delete your profile and go play someplace else. But for what it's worth, THANK YOU again for not making me waste more of MY TIME on you.
To everyone else, have a FANTASTIC DAY!!
MDW |
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How to ID a scammer
I've realized yet another thing on this crazy site called collarme. We all know there are a LOT of fakes and posers on here. Some are here to fantasize online about things they are too insecure to try in their real life. Many are people from other countries hoping to trick someone into sending them money in spite of the fact that collarme advice is to SEND NO MONEY TO ANYONE FOR ANY REASON. Good advice.
But how do you know if they're one of those scammers? Many are obvious. If someone says that they LOVE YOU after one email and chat session, that's a pretty good clue. IF they claim their former Master/Mistress took them to a foreign country then stranded them, there's another one. They could go to the embassy and get help getting back home if this were the case. They need money for their ticket (or other documents) to get back home. They have a deceased, Master/mother/father/etc. The hotel is "holding" their passport. Or any thing that they come up with that asks you to give them your "full name and address" With this information they can open accounts in your name.
But here's a cool thing. COLLAR ME HAS A WONDERFUL TOOL to help you id the phonies.
It's called "Who's Viewing Me?" I mean, think about it. IF someone sends me an email or chat invite, the first thing I do, (or close to the first) is to have a look at their profile. Yet, I can send an email to what "appears" to be a good prospect and get an answer like, "thank you for writing, I'd like to chat and get to know you better" or something similar, yet they did not even bother to look at my profile. And in the few cases, I've actually hooked up in a chat with them, I get a bucket load of questions that were clearly spelled out in my initial email to them on collarme, indicated they did not even bother to read THAT. I usually cut them off immediately but sometimes I string them along just for the fun of it. And to keep them busy. LOL!
C'mon people. THINK. If I were a scammer I could certainly do a much better job of it. And if you tell me you were raised in California, or Texas, or New York, or Florida, or any US state, or even in the UK, but you cannot speak English, that's a good screw up too.
Sheesh! Are there any real slave types around? Male? Female? Couple? Trans? Switch? LMAO!!!
MDW |
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HELP MY SLAVE!
Recently we had a girl come to us as her partner had gotten messed up on drugs and drinking and had become violently abusive. There is a huge difference between abuse and a consensual S & M or Master/slave relationship. The latter includes trust and respect that is far more total and complete than most ever encounter, except for the few who find this lifestyle and do it well. There are a few non lifestylers who manage it as well but they are extremely rare.
She spent about a week or two here and did her part to help out and seek our advice about the best direction for her to move in which we freely gave as that's the kind of people we are. In the end she followed some, but not all, of our advice and we wish the best for her.
But that's not the main reason for this entry. During the time she was here, it reminded me of other times when we've had someone else present which only keeps in mind how well my current slave THRIVES in a poly environment. Her service is better and she's happier with a sister/friend to do things with.
Which brings us back to all the girls on the site apparently seeking poly who when contacted have responded with things like, I am not interested in a couple or the more blatant, I don't do poly. Then why in the hell is it on your profile. Or those seeking a Male Dom couple who give the same responses.
C'mon ladies. Get your head together and get a little open minded about what you really seek. As I've said in previous entries, I am not really interested in LDR's or cyber or sending you money or joining your site. I AM seeking a real life breathing honest person who can be bi or straight, sub, slave or switch, but who truly desires to be a part of a fun, loving, caring, family built around D/s principles.
May you all find your perfect place in the world,
MDW - Darrell |
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DO NOT CONTACT ME IF....
* if you claim to be born in the USA but for some reason find yourself in Africa needing help to get back home. I have nothing against any race, or people from any continent but the sheer number of women "stranded" in Africa is staggering! Someone should get the United Nations to look into this problem. But seriously, I would accept a slave of any legal age or any race and from any country or continent. But YOU have to find your way to Me, I will not do that for you. I WILL take care of you from that moment on however.
? if you want me to go to some silly cam site to sign up to be verified for "only a dollar". I am one of the rare (and real) honest dominants who hosts a local munch, gives lifestyle demos, participates in group discussions, and is very experienced and known in lifestyle circles. It's really easy to find me and find out about me, and I don't need to register on your cam site to do that.
* if you are dominant. I am the only dominant in my house and I do not seek another. I seek a slave. Possibly a switch. as they could at times, top my other slave for some added fun and games. And if you're male you had better be willing to serve a male Master, not a female Mistress because my slave, while she is quite capable of topping, doesn't have a dominant bone in her body. |
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To my next slave,
It's sad that I did not find you before this holiday season, as I'm awfully nice to my slaves around the holidays. This is to repay them for all of their devotion and service throughout the year. And ringing in the New Year in my house is always a fun affair for the slave and I. It would be so nice to have one more slave to share our good times with. We aren't rich or anything but we have a home filled with abundant love and laughter and are devoted to our goals in unison. And we have many exciting plans for the next few years as well. I hope my future slave reads this and thinks to herself or himself, "I hope that could be me". And if you do think it could be, just get in touch. I'm here. I'm on almost every day or night at least once. And I really am serious about adding that special person to our life.
I'm seeking someone permanent. And honest. If you have a desire for a permanent position as a slave, and are totally honest, then by all means get in touch. Let's talk. I'm real. Are you?
Wishing you all the best of holiday cheer no matter what your beliefs may be, and the most wonderful luck imaginable in the coming New Year.
Master DREAM WEAVER, (Darrell) |
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I KNOW there has to be some on here who really desire to live the life of a trusted and appreciated slave. Who relishes the idea of knowing you'll be led, taught, used, but also appreciated and protected and loved.
I'm nearing retirement where we may be able to travel the country meeting others of like mind, playing, exploring and just enjoying life. Wouldn't you like to be doing that too?
Join us. Contribute your skills and talents to our common goals while encouraging happiness and enjoyment. Share in the laughter and love of the house.
We can be extreme, but we always keep it safe. (although it IS fun to make it SEEM unsafe at times. GRIN!)
MDW - Darrell |
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I have chatted with a few from the site here who claim to want to join a Male-Dom couple or join a poly household, but a large percentage of them are really only scammers. Mostly in third world countries but a few scattered other places on the globe. A good hint you aren't talking to someone real, is that they have Colorado or Texas or some state on their profile but shortly into the conversation you find out that they aren't there but in some other country. The reasons vary but most often, death or illness of a parent, or "on business". The other clue is that they claim to be an American but can't read or write the language well.
Don't get me wrong. I've been on the internet a long time and read typo-ese very well, but that's not what this is. LOL!
I have been in touch online with about three or four who COULD be the real thing, but there were more like these before too. After a few days or weeks of conversation they disappear, never to be heard from again. I'd say that means they aren't serious. There was ONE who I don't talk to often anymore but that one WAS one of the rare honest ones. She and I just had some basic "differences" and it was clear she wasn't what I was looking for and I most likely would not have been the best one for her.
Then there are the "fantasy seekers". Bored housewives? younger ones looking for a thrill? These can be identified by the constant probing for questions. "what will you do to me?" "what will you make me wear?" That's just cyber folks. Anyone who's been in the lifestyle long knows that every single interaction and scene is different. And every single Dominant or submissive or slave is different. I simply don't go into it beyond saying I enjoy a particular "activity" but I won't go into all the details of what that activity is. They should already know what a crop or cane is, what a collar is, what exhibitionism or voyeurism is, and if they don't I can explain what it is, but I still don't want to get into cyber games.
I just want an honest, sincere slave to join my other slave and I. If I wanted to "play online" I would say so. I do enjoy a "playfulness" in my girls though. Who wouldn't? A sense of humor is necessary, I believe, to have a happy life. And don't we all want a happy life?
MDW - Darrell |
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It's really sad, the lack of honesty and real people on sites like these. There ARE a few sincere people who do want to hook up but most seem to fall into one or more of these categories. Scammers - who want money or want you to join some site online, Fantasizers - who get off on cyber fantasies from emails or pictures they can get from you, but are too insecure or afraid to actually venture into the world of bdsm for real, or Collectors, who really are only here for the pictures.
We are a very honest, and very sincere COUPLE who live a 24/7 Master/slave Male Dom relationship and who wish to become a poly "family" by adding one slave to the mix. We aren't overly picky about race, age, sex, or any other such factors, and only seek one who can be HONEST, D/D free, who's reasonably sincere about wanting to be a part of a family filled with excitement, laughter, love and of course the ORDER of M/s. Doesn't seem like it should be so difficult does it? Well it is. Sadly.
If you ARE someone like this or know someone who may fit the bill, please send them our way. This is My profile. The slave has one here too, as wishes1961 if you'd like to see her.
MDW - 10/15/07 |
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| Age: 46 |
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