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MACommander

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<|||> Serious, Experienced, and Seeking ... I am a mid-forties white male with a rugged build, intelligent, self-confident, personable, a self-employed professional, considered good looking, youthful yet mature, an experienced dom with a wickedly creative mind. I am interested in all three aspects of the BDSM lifestyle (physical, emotional, and spiritual) and am actively involved in the BDSM community, running both a munch as well as a private, by invitation only BDSM social group. I have a naturally dominant (not to be confused with overbearing) nature and am open to new ideas and experiences while actively seeking the “right” woman who is also interested in and values the physical, emotional, and spiritual aspects of BDSM.

I am seeking a submissive woman, one for whom submission is an integral part of who she is -- not a game to be played or something to be turned on and off as the mood or occasion arises. A woman who is proud of her submissive nature, who both understands and values who she is and what she has to offer to her dom and their relationship. One who experiences real emotional and mental satisfaction through the knowledge that her submission is appreciated by her dom and that it serves to make his (and by extension her) life better and more fulfilling. A helpmate in the true sense of the word.

The woman I am seeking is versatile, enjoys being treated like a lady yet isn't afraid of getting dirty, enjoys wearing dresses, skirts, stockings, and heels as well as jeans and athletic shoes. Or perhaps nothing at all. Can engage in intelligent and articulate conversation, will cause a spark in my heart, and when trust has been established has the ability to give to me the gifts of her heart and her body -- without modesty or reserve.

Age, religion, educational background, and race are unimportant; caring, warmth, honesty, loyalty, and trustworthiness are, as are not having an excess of relationship or intimacy issues. Jealousy and distrust are traits that I find to be both ugly and a turn-off. I would prefer a woman whose weight is not excessively disproportionate to her height.

(All of the above constitutes a big order; I expect one that will be difficult to fulfill in light of the comparatively small size of the BDSM versus vanilla community. While specific in what I seek I am also a realist; real life is a balancing act, The Stepford Wives is ultimately both an unhealthy and undesirable fiction, and the qualities which I am describing as being sought is a conceptual ideal that would be wonderful to strive for with the right woman that is interested in the same)

I am honest and loving, committed to my family, and more than able and willing to provide that same level of love and commitment to the woman in my life. I have three active and intelligent sons who share their time with myself and their mother, leaving me with ample time to share with my submissive without outside interruption. I enjoy cooking for, talking with, holding -- even just looking at -- the woman in my life. I also enjoy reading, dining out, movies, sports, exploring, and new activities, among other things. I am a political moderate, and am not afraid to express my views to my friends at both ends of the spectrum.

Kindly respond with an in-depth explanation of who you are / what you are seeking in response to my profile; one-liners, uninformative, hurriedly written, or boilerplate responses will be discarded without acknowledgment. Important: tell me where you are located in your initial response (I live near White River Junction, Vermont, on the New Hampshire border, an hour north of the Massachusetts line). Respond only if you are able and willing to advance beyond on-line contact within a reasonable period of time. I am not interested in cyber (for me the internet is a way to meet people, not a lifestyle choice) and am not interested in players. I am direct, honest, and straightforward; don't waste my time and I won't waste yours. I’ve included a photo in my profile; please send me a recent picture of yourself if there isn’t one in yours. I look forward to hearing from you.

Casimir
www.yahoogroups.com/groups/UpperValleyMunch

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EmpressSimone
 
 Age: 26
 Wilton, Maine