Pulchritudinous, sesquipedalian, sybaritic, highly intelligent, sarcastic, eccentric, funny, creative, liberal homo sapiens in search of kindred creatures for friendship, education, witty banter, and mutual enlightenment. 4:20-friendly. Plays well with others. Housebroken. Thinks outside the box, takes candy from strangers, puts metal in the microwave, runs with scissors.

I have been a primarily submissive, sadomasochistic switch in the BDSM lifestyle for about 15-20 years. Sometimes I go to the Lair De Sade or Threshold dungeons in North Hollywood, although I am looking to meet people closer to my home in south Orange County. I enjoy a wide variety of kinks including personal and sexual service, protocol, bondage and restraints, collars, impact play of most kinds, and especially spanking.

I have grappled with major depression, bipolar disorder, attention-deficit disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, panic attacks, and other crap most people couldn't handle for the majority of my adult life. I try to surround myself with compassionate, positive people who can provide emotional support when necessary. Anyone who inquires "What do you have to be depressed about?" or advises me to "Just snap out of it" may find themselves in the company of several shady Italian guys, all named "Vinny," who would like to arrange for you to "sleep with the fishes," or fit you for a nice pair of "concrete shoes."

Please be compassionate, patient, highly intelligent, spontaneous and creative, emotionally mature but young at heart, confident but not egotistical, with a sharp wit and a wicked sense of humor. Please include at least one recent photo - of your face, tyvm - with your message if you would actually like an answer. ツ

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