Speaking from the mind of a curious 23 year old incumbent I deem myself a humanist. I'm happily engaged and certainly not looking for sex be it cyber, phone or whatever. Many serious members practicing BDSM would consider me a "vanilla" guy but honestly i'm not really bothered about that. I'm not really in favor of classifying humans on the basis of their relligion, caste, creed,gender or even moral orientations; am an agnostic with eastern orientations as far as religious beliefs are concerned. Sympathetic contemplation is pinnacle around which my life revolves for without it i'll be a mere living tombstone. P.S - not looking for any commitments either.