I'm a fit, (not buff, but fit) MWM age 49. I'm told that I'm handsome,.

I am an avid reader and lover of books, (not Nooks), My personal library contains over 12,000 books, all genres.

My musical tastes are also varied. While mostly a 70's rocker, I do love jazz, classical, and even some country. Some of the current music does move me, although it may be weird to some. (Rhianna's "Whips and Chains excite me" kind of stuff")

My film interests are also varied, comedy to action with a few chick flicks thrown in for good measure, lol.

I love the outdoors, climbing in the mountains, backpacking in the wilderness, the beach, etc.

My hobby is weightlifting. I'm a gym rat. At this point in my life I am exploring my sexuality in many areas. I guess you might say, I've been working through a sexual "bucket list." Lol Incidentally, about my handle... Pronounced "Love that O for you", which is true, it speaks to my desire to please. (give more than receive)
There is a secondary meaning, According to the Urban Dictionary, DATO stands for "Dining At The O" meaning a lover of Analingus.
I am not into scat, but I love to rim, and tongue dive into a nice clean woman's A'hole. My Kinks are at this time:
Cunniligus and Facesitting
Analingus
Pictophilia especially BDSM related
Pegging
experimenting with Masochism esp. CBT
Orgasm Denial (my own) I may add other kinks as I "find myself" sexually.
I am here on this site primarily to find friends who are like minded, and to learn from the experiences of others.