Because it would take forever to have my profile updated, I am adding this journal entry to try to shed some light on what I am looking for.

I am ultimately looking for a Daddy or Dom for a monogamous relationship.  Ideally this would look normal among the vanillas as we are out having dinner, or seeing a movie, or spending time with friends and family, but there would always be a discrete undercurrent of our dynamic while in public.  

I am much more fulfilled by establishing a mental connection, a bond.  The kink, the sexual aspect, is merely the icing on the cake.  Delicious, but still not the main course.

I am not looking for an online-only interaction or endless texts.  And I am not able to or willing to relocate.  If you are more than an hour's drive from my profile location then we are too far from each other for the amount of attention I desire.

Thanks for reading and best of luck on your search.