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(27FEB2015) I don't check here often but I DO still check from time to time. It may take a while for Me to respond, but don't be afraid to leave a message.


(05NOV2007)
I had this in the journal; decided to move it to the profile.
Probably every person who has been involved in, or wanted to be involved in, a Master-slave relationship, has a different definition of what it means to them, a different model of what it's about. Me, I'm open to a lot of different interpretations. But there are some things I am NOT open to.It is only possible to be "possessive" about a possession. Whatever else a Master may be, I do not see where it makes any sense whatsoever to define a Master as being the property of the slave. Therefore, possessiveness on the part of the slave is something that I can't even understand existing - but given that it does exist, I regard it as something that should not be tolerated. I don't intend to tolerate it for one second.Monogamy: Been there, done that, got the divorce decree. This will probably simplify things by eliminating 99.9% of the female population. I can live with that. I can live with it if it eliminates 100%: I've learned the hard way that I CAN'T live with the alternative; jealousy and the endless misery it causes for everyone concerned.

Another important point is honesty. It seems to be true of women in general that they will readily tell a man, especially a Dominant, "What He wants to hear." Meaning, what THEY think "He wants to hear." If I have come to trust a woman, and I am fed "what I want to hear" that's not an act of submission, that's not an act of kindness - that's a betrayal of trust.

Today (02MAR2007) I want to talk about being "trustworthy." Something I've said many times, and will no doubt say again:

You can NOT trust Me to do what you tell Me to do, what you expect Me to do, or what you think I should do. If that is what trustworthy means to you, I regret to say I am not trustworthy.

You CAN trust Me to do what I tell you I am going to do. If that is what trustworthy means to you, I am happy to say I am trustworthy.




Lucius Alexander

House of the Palindromedary



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8/31/2016 4:44:02 PM
From St Augustine: "Give me one who yearns; give me one who is hungry....who is thirsty and sighs for the spring of the Eternal Country. Give me that sort; they know what I mean. But if I speak to a cold person, that one just does not know what I am talking about...."

2/6/2016 6:57:26 AM

To the tune of "Sunny Came Home"

sunny came hard in the laundry room

sunny came hard in the kitchen

sunny obeyed all her Master's rules

sunny came hard by permission

she said "Days go by and this twat stays dry

As if there were no desire;

Then by His command or by Master's hand, and i -

i melt in the fire."

Lock the leash and lock the fetter

Rope is good but chains are better

Count the years, you always knew it

Beg the collar let Him do it

Lucius Alexander

Copyright Palindromedary Enterprises

10/5/2015 6:05:02 PM
Almost two years without a journal entry?

Maybe I should just announce my retirement.


10/12/2013 10:05:45 PM

Can anyone identify the source for this?

 

Part of the thing about a dominant is that he needs his submissive for things that a whore wouldn’t do for money, a rapist couldn’t take and a vanilla girl just isn’t built to give. It’s the part where he needs to venture into her soul and leave a mark in a spot deep down that she didn’t even know existed. To write “Master was here” on that pristine wall, an act of defilement that is deeply  satisfying to him as well as to her for she’ll cherish having it as if it was a Banksy.

And this also explains why a dominant doesn’t have the makings of a rapist because it closes that path to that particular spot if it isn’t given up freely. And it explains why a dominant isn’t a whore hound, because he cannot pay his way to that spot. And it explains why he has little interest in vanillas unless he senses that she may have the path but doesn’t know it yet. Because where he leaves that mark, he paints it with a bit of his own soul and he won’t waste it on anyone lesser. On anyone less deserving.


12/19/2012 7:20:33 PM

"A man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth."

 

Unfortunately, I don't know the source of the quote.


9/12/2011 10:59:55 PM

 

"to put it in a blunt, harsh way: conventionally, a man's role is to
hitch himself to the plow of his choice, and pull that plow until he
dies in harness, leaving whatever he's managed to accumulate over his
lifetime to his widow and children. Only moochers, cripples, and
deadbeats reject this role.

"I'm not saying women's conventional role is less repressive than this
(at least men get their choice of plow), but society is now in a
situation where womens' roles and options are at least open for
consideration. I think this is at best arguably true for men."

 

Jeffery Brown, Phd


8/14/2010 10:08:19 PM

From Eugene Monick's Phallos: Sacred Image of the Masculine

Phallos, the erect penis, the emblem and standard of maleness. All images through which masculinity is defined have Phallos as their point of reference. Sinew, determination, effectuality, penetration, straightforwardness, hardness, strength - all have Phallos giving them effect .... Erection points to a powerful inner reality at work in a man, not altogether in his control. No male has to learn Phallos. It presents itself to him, as a God does.

A man uses Phallos; he is not a man if he cannot do so. Men need to know their source of authority and to respect their sacred symbol. Phallos opens the door to masculine depth.

Phallos has been neglected by the literature of psychoanalysis as an originating psychic force. It has been suggested by the fathers but not developed as a primal element in the psyche. Pscyhoanalytic theory, whether Freudian or Jungian, gives singular primacy to the mother as the basis of life. This is an error. 

3/17/2010 12:35:02 PM

Something I just came across. From Justinian's Corpus Juris Civilis : "Nulla injuria est, quae in volentem fiat."


5/19/2007 1:52:29 PM
Someone started a discussion in one of the forums that got Me thinking. This is what I came out with.

Well let's see.

First, I have to say that appearance doesn't matter very much to Me. No matter what a woman's age, weight, or particulars of countenance complexion and coloring, if we are otherwise compatible I will probably find her sexually attractive. I don't think I ever, even once, turned a woman away because of how she looks.

Now, does that mean I don't find some women more visually attractive than others? No. I don't deny the visual impact of, say, kriss ziemer or gillian
anderson
. But it's just not that important. Also, I have found that people (men and women alike) are often surprised at what I do find beautiful, or who I would rank as more or less attractive.

But even judging purely by My own standards:

I've noticed that the women with whom I have had the most intensely pleasurable sexual experiences are not necessarily the great beauties. The women with whom I have had the hottest and most extreme experiences of Dominance and submission were not always those I would have rated as most visually appealing. And the women with whom I have had the most emotionally intimate and satisfying relationships were not always physically flawless.

If I were seeking women to put in cages and suspend from the ceiling just to look at, or hang on the wall as decorations, I'd care a lot more about what they look like. But that's not what I'm looking for (not that I wouldn't chain a woman to the wall, or find her beautiful if I did, but I want a lot more than that out of her.)

And I hope any woman that contacts Me would also want to be more to Me than just another pretty face.

Lucius Alexander

House of the Palindromedary


4/10/2007 6:01:10 PM
I said this in one of the forums, but I think it may bear repeating here:

The older I get, the more experience I have, the slower I am to make - or accept - any commitments.

Lucius Alexander

3/30/2007 2:57:58 PM
"One who is a human being belonging by nature not to himself but to another is by nature a slave; and a person is a human being belonging to another if being a man he is an article of property, and an article of property is an instrument for action separable from
its owner." -- Aristotle

3/19/2007 5:49:37 PM
Interesting quote from Andy Randead...

"Almost anywhere you go when you meet new people, the first question out of any single women's mouth is "Hi, how are you, so what do you do?" Now I know that to some degree they may be trying to start up a conversation but what that really means most of the time is "I don't have time to waste so I need to know if you're a good earner before I waste any time talking to you".......... It would be like the guy asking her right away "Hi, how are you, so do you swallow?"........


Not sure how valid it is.....but it bears thinking on....

3/2/2007 5:17:34 PM
I find Myself wondering what I should put in the profile, vs. what goes in the journal. I'll probably always be "tweaking" the profile as I go along.

I learned a lot in My time in the military. One thing I realized was that if even the US military can't make a conformist of Me, nothing ever will.

Another insight I had is; no one's life comes entirely out of "the kit." Even in the military, everyone (once I knew them well enough) had something about their lives or personalities that was "nonstandard" or "custom built." But what sets Me apart is -?almost nothing?in My life is "out of the kit." It's?nearly all?customized. My spirituality is non-standard. My sexuality is non-standard. My politics is non-standard. Even those aspects of My life that are "normal" have not been at normal times or in normal order:? I joined the military at 27. I have done everything from help pay for a child's college to changing a diaper, but never raised a single child all the way from infancy to adulthood. I took My last 3 credits and finally graduated college when I was - 36 I think. So, am I working up to a point? Perhaps the point is, it's dangerous to make assumptions about Me.

2/4/2007 9:28:54 AM



Want Me to post a picture? Think I should send a picture if I contact you? Read this.

www period collarchat period  com / m_802512/mpage_1/key_/tm period htm

(Apparently, collarme won't let me post a link in this - not even if it's to a COLLARCHAT post! So I had to dismember the address. I still recommend reconstructing it and reading the discussion.)

Then ask yourself very seriously if what you're asking is really reasonable.

I don't demand or expect to see your picture. If you think you have a right to demand to see Mine, care to try explaining to Me why?

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