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** Edited to add I am looking for LOCAL people ONLY. If you are not local, please don't try to add me to your friends list or bother to try to "hook up"...no really, if I can't lick your pussy or crawl over your lap for a sound spanking, I'm not interested** I am totally rewriting my profile today because the one I had seemed like a book. This one will probably turn out just as long but it may be worth the read. I suggest you read the whole thing before making any decisions as to whether or not you want to get to know us. I am a married bi poly female switch. No, that does not make me confused, just greedy. Deal with it LOL. I like women considerably more than men (they smell nicer and have softer skin) and I identify submissive more than dominant.
Ideally my household would consist of my husband and myself and a bi switchy girlfriend who would be sub to him and switch with me. I told you I was fuckin greedy didn't I? I am ACTIVELY seeking ONLY an additional female in my dynamic.
Mr and I are very sexual in our D/s. Recently we have transitioned more to a 24/7 arrangement since our vanilla lives have calmed down enough to be able to do so. We do have a list of things that our D/s doesn't interfere with (health, legal, our kids, our proffessions etc) and we are able to speak to one another as equal adults when neccessary. To view our relationship from the outside, we probably look like a more equal/vanilla couple than D/s.
I prefer he be in charge as much as possible (that could be laziness) He owns my body and I like it that way. If he wants me to do it, I will to the best of my ability. We want a **relationship** with someone whom we can relate to on equal terms with love and respect and trust and all that goes along with them. We are Not into sport fucking. If you get involved with us, even on just a casual basis, expect to put the work into developing friendship, maybe even with extra benefits. Honesty and openness are imperative.
When it comes to the darker side of our interests we want someone who is comfortable in the role they choose to be in and is just as perverted and kinky as we are or is at least willing to sample from the vast BDSM buffet. First, they are a person with feelings and thoughts and an opinion, most importantly they need to have a strong sense of self worth, beyond that it's all about consent :) Our BDSM interests include just about everything EXCEPT blood, animals, minors or illegal activities. Needles and knives scare the shit out of me and I have no experience with singletails and that lucite shit they make paddles out of these days is just fucking nasty. We like all things anal as long as it's SSC. I happen to be a bondage and spanking slut...oh who the fuck am I kidding, I am a slut period LOL. I am not at all interested in sex with other men, ever. I may at some point be interested in a chaste service submissive, but that means NO sexual contact at all. You want to turn me on? Great! Clean my house! You want to get your own rocks off? Tough, do that on your own time. As far as other couples and dominant men are concerned, we are also looking for casual scene partners, friends and kinky people in general to hang out with on a regular basis. Again let me re-state, I am not interested sexually (read: penis to vagina intercourse and oral stimulation in either direction) in other males, but I am a spanking slut and would have no issue crawling over the knee of or being tied up and tormented by the right person or people as long as both Mr and I are comfortable with that person (read: have developed a relationship and a sense of trust)
That does NOT mean I need you to ask Mr's permission or consent if I play with another dominant male, His consent would have been already requested and established at the time of scene negotiation. I however do insist that any other men I session with be well known by and trusted by Mr. That point I will not negotiate, it is a HARD limit for me. He is strictly a straight dominant and would be only interested in playing with other females in whatever physical contact he and she negotiate. (anything He and she decide btw is OK with me, including sexual play) He relates very well with other dominant men and women and enjoys conversations involving the devious things we all like to do as well as geek speak so someone interested in computers and online RPG gaming is a big bonus LOL Our vanilla interests include all things computer (he is a network architect) amusement parks, *sometimes* camping, weekends off in a nice hotel being spoiled and pampered and relaxing, good food and people with a sense of humor that don't take life too fuckin seriously. We attend the local dungeon (The Woodshed @ www.thewoodshedorlando.com for more info) on an occassional basis, time restrictions for us are our usual holdup. He and I are both complete smart asses, we like to laugh and we enjoy life as much as life will let us. Don't be shy, send me a message. I'll read your profile before I respond though so if there isn't anything there I won't know anything about you to want to respond to ;)

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12/29/2012 2:44:50 PM

Hmm, seems I haven't added anything here since last April.

Well, a lot has been happening actually..

 

Sometime around Mayish I aquired a new property to work on. I cleaned it up, repaired a LOT of walls, ripped out carpets, redid floors. replaced a bunch of stuff and repainted the entire inside. Now it's rented out and I have some nice young tenants who are happy that I took the time to make the house so pretty.

 

In July, my Dad's lawsuit finally settled, but since he passed away in 2007, the settlement money was sent to me being his next of kin. It wasn't much, but it was enough for me to be able to do something for myself I have been waiting for 20 years to do. I had a tummy tuck and a breast lift! I feel like a completely new woman! I feel confident and sexy and beautiful! Somehow between last January and my surgery in August I also managed to lose 30 pounds. I hope I never find it again LOL!

Anyway, it feels fantastic to actually have a real size and be able to buy and wear clothing right off the rack! I also got my eyes done with tattoo eyeliner and bought myself a few rounds of laser hair removal to deal with some troublesome areas no girl ever wants to have to deal with (I'm Italian though so it was inevitable)

 

There was enough after my surgery to pay off a few bills, including both car notes AND we went on a cruise on December 1st. We did the 7 night Western Caribbean cruise on RC Cruise lines. We took the largest ship in the world, the Allure of the Seas. While that might sound extravagant, let me assure you, it wasn't. There were way too many people, way too many little kids, and way too much confusion. The boat has a capacity of 9000, of that number 3500 are crew members...almost none of which speak English. It was sometimes very frustrating to me dealing with a language barrier. Since they have crew members from all over the world (mostly though from 3rd world countries) there would have been no way for me to have been prepared to have the ability to speak to everyone.

We had planned 5 shore excursions for our 3 port days, 3 of those got canceled. One was due to bad weather, the other two, the times had been changed at the last minute so they conflicted with other excursions we had planned so we had to pick one or the other. The "complimentary" food wasn't all that special...think Golden Corral buffet style but the food wasn't that good. The specialty restaraunts were good, but very expensive.

I can say, it was very nice to get away for a week, but I will NEVER cruise again. Next vacation is going to be on a nice warm Greek island, in a rented house with a pool by the beach. Mr says I have the next 5 years to learn to speak at least a little Greek because that's what we're doing for our 25th anniversary ;) I'm totally down with that!

 

Right after the cruise was my birthday. We were supposed to go to the Woodhsed, but I decided against it because someone else was also having a birthday that weekend and I was kind of feeling selfish...I wanted to be the ONLY Princess getting some nice spankings LOL. So, Mr took me to a really nice sushi/habachi place about 15 minutes away from the house, and it turned out to be a pretty nice night afterall. I got to wear my beautiful new jewelry that Mr got me while we were on the cruise, and my pretty new sundress, I had a fabulous dinner...and got my spankings AND a good romp when we got home <grin>

 

Then came Christmas...we got Short Pants (my youngest one) almost everything he wanted on his list to Santa. Since it was mostly electronics, the pile looked a little pathetic before I wrapped it. So I rummaged around the garage for some of the extra boxes and packing peanuts I can't seem to bring myself to throw away <ever> and wrapped everything up so it was all BIG. Shorty had fun trying to figure out what was in each box before he opened it and of course I took lots of pictures ;)

Mr got me a set of the ugliest china I swear I have ever seen, but all is well though because my girlfriend had brought me a pretty set of service for 12 a few days before we left for our cruise...which Mr forgot about. So I ended up taking the china he bought back to the store. We (read He) decided we are going to put the money away for when we go to Beyond Leather this upcoming April.

He also got me a charm from a store called Thiings Remembered. The girl that sold it to Him told Him it was sterling silver. It wasn't. He had it engraved "Forever Mine". An hour after I put it on, the bale broke, and it crashed to the floor. I managed to fix it, but it fell off again within a few minutes and Mr was pissed. He and I returned it today. He wants to take me to a jeweler (which He shoulda done to begin with dammit) and have one made for me.

 

So now New Years is ahead of us, just a few days away. I'm looking forward to it because I volunteered to help out with the party at our local dungeon, The Woodshed. I will be bringing a bunch of food, Cheesecake bites with strawberry & chocolate topping, seafood salad cucumber bites, BLT w cucumber stuffed cherry tomatoes and salmon salad with crackers. I will be preparing food all day tomorrow, but it's gonna be good stuff! ;)

 

On that note, it looks like it's time to head to the grocery store ;)


4/23/2012 7:53:24 AM

So, here I sit, clicking to read all the profiles of people who have recently viewed mine. I am (erroniously) sitting in judgement of those that have mentioned age in their profiles, scoffing at those who have said anything like "no one over 30 contact us" thinking *boy are you missing out on some really experienced folks...then my brain comes to a complete stop and I remember that I have also placed some pretty strict age restrictions in my own profile. I of course at almost age 42 (ok, stfu, I'm old*er* not old dammit!) and my feelings on age personally are I am not interested in anyone without much experience, vanilla, Bdsm or otherwise.

I could go on to explain how I've raised kids to adulthood (if you can even call it that at ages 20 and 22 LOL) and I am not into this or that or whatever...but it doesn't really matter does it? My reasons are my own, and those of you who have asked to only meet a younger crowd of folks have your own reasons and I have no reason or right even to be offended by it or judge.

See? I am trying to NOT be a hypocrite.

 

I still prefer to message people who have something to say, regardless of what it is. I am curious to know about and meet other people involved in this lifestyle.

 

Mr and I went this past weekend to the Woodshed and had a very good time. Because it was our first visit (and first public anything in quite a long time) our plans were to go hang out, get to know folks and socialize and MAYBE do a little light play if we felt comfortable (new crowd of folks and all)

Turns out the atmoshpere was extremely relaxing, I love the two seperate areas with different vibes to play in and we ended up doing a decently heavy (if I do say so myself) scene. Oh, and I found out that I really do have leather in my ass because Mr was swatting me pretty hard with the cowhide and didn't leave even one fucking mark (sad face)

There were quite a few interesting folks to talk to and watch and we even ran into some old friends we used to know from where we lived up north.

 

All in all so far I am happy and excited to be able to get back into the groove of things and I am really looking forward to continuing to be involved with our local community.

 

Cheers!

 


3/29/2012 3:10:27 PM

For the love of Pete Ladies PLEASE put *something* in your profiles. Write something...anything at all...even if it is "Fuck off I'm not looking"

 

I have been trying to participate on the message boards a little bit. Not really sure I'm ready to do anything but that yet (sorry, I'm shy LOL)

I guess if I saw someone local with a filled out profile (what you're looking for etc) and I thought we might be compatable I may offer to meet someone for a drink or something. But I can't know what you're looking for unless YOU SAY SO!

 

Blah, anyway


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Anna55
 
 Age: 25
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