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Back again after quite a while. Last time I was searching for a soulmate. Knowing that probably won't happen I'm now simply seeking friends and possible play partners. If more develops, I would be pleasantly surprised. I'm a romantic, educated and hope to find one with whom I could spend time and enjoy all . I've been in the lifestyle for over a decade and have definite opinions about domination and submission as a relationship dynamic. I truly want the girl to whom I can give something special. I'm the Dom that is a gentleman, romantic, caring and affectionate. I believe in putting my girl on a pedestal, showering her with honor and treating her in such a way that she would follow me anywhere and do anything asked knowing she will always be protected and treated as a treasure. If you wish to know more please ask. Don't be shy.
10/30/2009 7:56:45 PM
10/15/2006 9:47:28 AM
What does one do when they feel they are about to lose hope?  See, for so long I have held on to the idea that someone was out there.  That special lady that would actually be honest and true and spend a lifetime with me.  It sounds cheesey, perhaps, but I am a romantic and I am the happily ever after man.  I am not an abuser, not into yelling or screaming.  I would rather be up front and open in communication.  But so many just want fun and games at the expense of someone's emotions and afftections.

I have thought of changing.  Being like the multitude on this site and out in the world that are asses and brutes and seem to always have at least one girl in their life.  I have played with the idea of one night stands.  Just sceneing with someone. 

But, I realize it is not my character.  How can I be mean when I was made to lift up and fill someone's life with love and joy?  It is not me to have a one night stand because more than anything I long for the morning after; holding her in my arms, kissing her good morning and being thankful for another day to have her in my life.  And I cannot just scene.  Without the connection on so many levels, it is just play. 

So, when you cannot change, when you cannot find that treasure, when you are running out of hope...what do you do?
3/5/2005 8:07:02 PM
12/2/2004 9:59:42 AM
Well, again I sit wondering in a state of despair whether I will ever have the love and passion I so crave.  It is so difficult for a man that sees sex as something special.  I am not trolling for a partner, but seeking the love of my life...the one I will build forever with as a friend, lover, companion, confidant, dominant, leader and gentleman.  With each passing day my discouragement builds, my confidence wanes and the lonliness I dread becomes more of a reality.  This may be uncommon for a Dominant but I am seeking that sweet, submissive lady that will save me from myself as much as I will save her.
11/17/2004 3:38:47 PM
I have been searching for that special lady to share a life of passion with for over 2 years...alas, I am beginning to think that she is nowhere to be found.  I ponder the question of whether I should simply save myself the continued emptiness and just resolve myself to life alone....
mjhay
 
 Age: 33
 Atlanta, Georgia