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Hetero Female Dominant, 44,  Fargo, North Dakota
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Loving4uMistress - photo 1

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IF you are out of state... you MUST be willing to relocate!!!
If you want to explore me by all means be serious and send a message,make it a full message, who you are and what you can bring to me in service, and what you hope to accomplish by taking this step. Know I will allow messages, contact is the first step - for either of US!
I am in search of submissive's that wants to relocate, after there is a foundation, Have the desire to learn, and develop themselves all under my teachings. I am looking for men who are willing to offer themselves up mind, body, and soul without demands, with the mind set to do whatever it takes to please Mistress. To give up the lustful eyes to ME!
Yes this mean cooking, cleaning, organizing, worshiping, and pleasing me in all ways! you will be required to have at least a Part time Job - for your own spending money, I have a more than full time job, you will also to have daily contact with Me until the move.
This is not a place for Pain sluts or persons who wish to have beatings to make them submit. this is for tho's who have the desire to submit for the pleasure of their Mistress! Do not be misunderstood, I will give you pleasure with the PAIN! ~sexy wink~ but it will be at MY bidding!
I am a smoker and a BBW so if either of these are NOT for you please just move past this profile.
BE FROM THE U.S.A. - long distance is hard enough - without the ocean and IMMIGRATION hurdles!
If this profile interests you... you have my permission to leave a message with face picture attached. but only one and then be patient, know... I do not chase subs/slaves, so now you choose! is this you new path in life?
Why is it so hard for tho's to believe A Mistress can be loving and tender... and still have FULL control!! the GREATEST sex organ is our BRAINS... to tease and withhold, to have my lil ones BEG for me to be near them... to allow them to CUM or NOT, to allow them to be PUNISHED... I do NOT feel I have to humiliate or degrade my lil ones... I know my way is NOT others, with their beliefs... I believe we all teach in the way that WORKS for each of us...

**THIS PART will be sent to you upon asking... This is a QUESTIONER! THIS WILL HELP TO GO FORWARD if you message Miss know I am looking to see if you have asked for this***
I am going to extend a hand to any who wants a different way to play!!! this is a direct link to Utherverse a Adult interactive Site - FREE to be basic!!! NO CC# to be Basic most of us just get a disposable CC if we VIP up... - that is a link to find me on a Adult full functioning AVI site... it will bring you to a profile page then you need to download the GAME, again no cost to be Basic...come check it out... I am there and friend all in world!











 Dominant Female


 North Dakota

 5' 2"






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Male

 Lives For:

 Coffee Shops

 Renaissance Faires



 Breast Play


 Being Massaged

 Speech Restrictions

 Female Supremacy


 Art Galleries



 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales



 Body Worship



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Domestic Service

 Hair Pulling

 Housework Service

 Mental Bondage


 Orgasm Control

 Role Playing




 Card Games



 Lifestyle BDSM



 Eighties Music

 Rock Music

 Seventies Music


 Amusement Parks

 Bar Hopping






 Anal Play



 Corner Time

 Local BDSM Community



 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play

 Sensory Deprivation

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Wax Play


 Horror Movies

 Online RPGs

 Blue Grass

 Country Music

 Folk Music


 Antique Shows

 Bird Watching

 Cane / Crop Discipline


 Massage (Giving)

 Curious About:

 Fine Dining

 Going to the Opera


 Musical Theater

 Erotic Hypnosis



 Humiliation / Degradation




 Hard Limits:


 Electrical Play

 Fire Play


 Gas Masks


 Knife Play

 Medical Play

 Needle Play



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Journal Entries:
5/21/2013 9:17:41 AM

wow same profiles over and over I have to wonder if there is either just game players or not enough Masters and Mistresses or subs/slaves people not making good connections!!!

5/18/2013 11:01:44 AM

Today is a brand new day... I will be taking serious sub/slaves please read whole profile and know I AM NOT PRO OR SEEKING TRIBUTE!!! I am real and looking for real for this life!!! 

6/7/2012 11:06:37 AM

the fetishes, the kinks, the sex, these are in actuality only a small part of a 24/7 M/s or D/s relationship, contrary to vanilla myth. Balancing a budget and checkbook, maintaining a household, maintaining a job or career, life in general outside of the sex and kink are all the things that take up the major portion of your time. These are the important skills that can keep both the dominant type and submissive type happy in their chosen relationship style more often than a good position or how many times the whip can be taken.

Do each of you have enough interests in your own lives to make each a good companion to the other? Because when the play is done, what do you do? Stare at each other blankly?

5/24/2012 6:20:13 PM

To ALL Male Sub's 


I am Real and NOT here to make your online fantasies come true!!!


I am looking for real time... someone who wants to make a life together in this lifestyle.


are you him???


if you are then message me with what YOU have to offer this Miss - send a picture - put your best Sub information out there to want to be wanted by this Miss! 

9/10/2011 7:00:42 PM

 The less overt power a Domme uses, the more Real Power she has. Walk and speak softly because You already HAVE the stick. This is the realization a true Domme has, no need to rant, rave or threaten. Real Power needs only to whisper~~ which means the sub/slave must be ever quiet, alert and attentive to be ready  and able to hear that whisper! I BELIEVE THIS WHOLE HEARTLY!!!! THANK YOU for your insight...candyasss...

8/31/2011 1:31:01 PM

To tho's who take the time to read this...  I am not your Average Mistress but then again if you truly look at all Dom/Domme's they are not the same either... all have their own style or desires to bring a Lil one under their own Wing/Family, I am no different... 


I look to new Lil ones for qualities that work for me as well as them... I am NOT PRO or in need of TRIBUTE! I am just me looking for a Long term Match as I look for their to also be with the Lil ones I choose...


I am REAL and will not allow lil ones to be dishonest or carry out what they have promised or said they will do... to me if you say it OBEY it!! 


I am tired of ONLINE games I will only chat with tho's who have a REAL desire to serve 24/7 - not meaning move tomorrow but it must be in the discussion... plus one visit to me minimum! then if all is well the move WILL happen....   


6/13/2011 10:42:32 AM

Can you relate to this?


Crossing Over

My palms are sweating
My heart is beating fast
My stomach is knotted in fear
I stand looking across the road to
The doorway that leads me, to the place I long to go 

I'm dressed vanilla 
Respectable to the eye
I stand looking across the road to 
The smoked filled room, laughter enticing me in 

I take a deep breath 
Look left and then right
There's no turning back for me now
I start to walk across that road to 
A new start a new life, no longer alone 

Through glazed eyes I stare
As the door opens wide 
The warm smile greets me 
Did I do right to cross that road? To
A life of submissiveness, learning life anew. 

So many new names 
So many new faces
But all smile back at me 
In the room I crossed over to 
A place with no blame, just understanding 

I have found a place
I have found a life 
I have found others like me
I crossed a road and found myself 
in a world of acceptance, respect and love 


Author:  dsculture.


6/9/2011 2:30:17 PM


5/20/2011 7:09:07 PM

As we each click the web page to view a new person we all hope... that will be our next... Master, Mistress, sub, slave... we ponder over the puzzle pieces that are left for us to put into place, to make sense of- to see if their pieces fit into our puzzle of life...

5/17/2011 5:42:51 PM

-Put this in your profile if you know someone who has survived or died of cancer-

5/16/2011 7:34:26 PM

I find it interesting... that a bottom who is trying to top this Mistress calls me fake because I will not allow myself to be topped!!! 

I understand the confusion with people having several accounts... but some of us are real and take our time to find just the right fit for a new live in 24/7 sub/slave! I wish people would understand this! 

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