I am looking for someone that will help me further develop my skills/traits as either a master or a slave..though I would prefer my skills as a master be developed more as I find my personality is more dominating then submissive but even I from time to time have slave tendencies so i guess if the right master or another fellow switch comes along i could be open to the slave possibility (further below for my blurb about slavery lol). I am def. not looking to have one time things with multiple people. I want to have a meaningful long term development with one person or partners (aka 2) whether it be as a friendship or a relationship. I am looking for a partnership between a master and a slave where control and ownership is based on respect. Respect builds trust which makes the bonds between the master and slave stronger (at least that's what I believe). I am extremely imaginative and open to exploring new things with the right slave.
Not looking to do anything unhealthy, dangerous, or illegal. Also while I like the occasional "soft" bite here or there or the feel of fingernails going down my back I am not looking for a sadist. If blood is drawn then we have a problem lol
Like i said above, if the right dom/master/switch were to come along i would consider taking a more passive role. However the master that i would sub for would have to be respectful and understanding. Due to certain things that have happened to me in my past i have certain walls that i just can't for the life of me get past (not discussing that part here). So said master would have to take the time to learn how far i can be pushed with various things and not resort to continual punishment due to my inability to break said walls. Its like asking a child who can't see to paint a paint by numbers or asking a one armed man to do the jump ropes for double dutch. But should the right dom/master/switch come along and take the time to learn my limits and show me respect while dominating me they will find that all their needs would always be met.
Want to know anything else then just send me an email or check out my journals below. Talk to you later.
6/29/2010 7:21:28 PM
Seriously...been on here for almost one day and already had some old dom master tell me that as a master I am being to "kind" and i need to start being more rough and dominating and focusing more on what i want and in my satisfaction....wtf!!! Well excuse me if I am a little different in the way I go about things. And how the heck would said master know anyways how i treat my slaves. I didn't know that there was a written law that said I have to treat my property the same way as everybody else. And what the heck is up with focusing on my own satisfaction..umm hello the fact that i am taking the master role and wanting a someone to be my slave is a huge brownie point on having my own needs met. But what the hell maybe i have found that i become satisfied by treating a sub the way that want to be treated. Maybe watching them take pleasure in being dominated and taking my commands while showing them respect gives me great satisfaction. I can demand, command and punish just like everybody else i just do it in my own way. So Back the Hell off!!!....ugh anyways I hope everybody is having a great day. For me I am off to bed...all i need is a nice, respectful sub curled up around me like a puppy and the night would be perfect...maybe i'll find him soon. :::fingers crossed:::
