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Hetero Male Dominant, 40,  Kansas
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Different reasons in this world drive us. The reason doesnt always drive us to the same Fulfilling needs and wants are both strong motivations to having the gears of complacency come to a grinding halt. They will take you and never once show shame in their driving force to become more than simple ideas. Find your path before it disappears like dust blown about by a striking wind. Know your heart, learn the ways that make you and break you.

Those striving for perfection of body mind and soul need only ask themselves two questions.Those are What is truly perfection and when will I be happy with my path.

Too many get too wrapped up in the fantasy of the perfect without realizing perfection is in the intent not the package.

To me the will of a person to bring joy and pleasure is much more enjoyable than something pedestrian. Your personality and demeanor make up more than the sum of your parts, so many base it on something as diminutive as how much you weigh or how many scars you might have.

Take me as I am, learn about me as I hopefully learn about you.










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 Dominant Male


 6' 2"

 300 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Body Worship (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Collars (Expert)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Knife Play (Expert)

 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage (Expert)

 Orgasm Denial (Expert)

 Sensory Deprivation (Expert)


 Wax Play (Expert)



 Intellectual Discourse






 Coffee Shops



 Martial Arts

 Anal Play (Expert)

 Blindfolds (Expert)



 Electrical Play (Expert)

 Fire Play (Expert)


 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Pantyhose Fetish



 Suspension Bondage




 Horror Movies

 Online Chatrooms

 True Crime

 Body Art





 Lifestyle BDSM


 Heavy Metal Music

 Industrial Music

 New Wave

 Punk Rock Music


 Amusement Parks

 Antique Shows

 Art Galleries


 Fine Dining


 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales


 Musical Theater


 Renaissance Faires





 Ultimate Frisbee





 Cane / Crop Discipline (Expert)


 Public Exhibition

 Erotic Hypnosis


 Foot Worship


 Medical Play


 Needle Play

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Role Playing

 Speech Restrictions

 Theatrical Scenes


 Vacuum Stimulation

 Arcade Games

 Board Games

 Card Games



 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows



 Online RPGs

 Puzzle Games

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction

 Simulation Games

 Web Surfing

 Alternative Medicine











 Libertarian Politics








 Political Activism

 1950s Lifestyle

 Goth Lifestyle

 Old Guard




 Alternative Music

 Blue Grass

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Folk Music


 Nineties Music


 Opera Music



 Rock Music

 Seventies Music







 Kick Boxing


 Sky Diving



 Street Hockey




 Bar Hopping

 Bird Watching



 Going to the Opera




 Sailing / Yachting

 Skate Boarding

 Surf Boarding


 Corner Time




 Genital Punishment

 Local BDSM Community

 Domestic Service

 Housework Service

 Masks (Wearing)

 Masks on Partner

 Massage (Getting) (Beginner)

 Oral Service

 Public Play

 Rubber Fetish



 Romance Novels


 TV News

 TV Sports

 Art Collecting


 Online Auctions


 Conservative Politics


 Liberal Politics


 Diet and Exercise

 Female Supremacy

 Gorean Lifestyle



 Country Music

 Hip Hop Music


 Pop Music



 Show Tunes






 Feng Shui









 Body Building


 Horse Racing

 Ice Hockey




 Curious About:



 Wind Surfing



 Humiliation / Degradation



 EMO Music

 New Age Music





 Hard Limits:



 Auto Racing

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Journal Entries:
6/3/2013 1:01:31 PM

I've noted in the last year or so how many pro dommes that seem to have this financial domination affliction cropping up in proportion to the down turned economy. Hasn't anyone heard of getting a real job and having some pride in themselves to work for a living rather than making money spreading their legs? Oh sorry, I forgot... Its not sexual and just a trade of cash for service "non sexual" in nature; they are only buying your time and not buying your body.


I know that I am going hear about those that want to give and are into humiliation and domination jazz. That's all well and good but from the get go? Easier to just call it like it is: prostitution and you happen to be a john/trick.

5/1/2012 6:53:22 AM

Feels strange to actually be happy to wake up......been quite some time since that happened.


4/13/2011 8:41:13 AM

Its been such an interesting time since the last time I've posted anything on this site or to my profile, hard to know where to start. Gone through so many ups and downs that it sometimes I can just make out what a yo yo must feel like. Its not done much to change my outlook on life nor my resolve to find out where I belong and who I am.

Each day should be a learning lesson as they say, feels more like once a week anymore. The sun is the sun, the moon is the moon people are generally good unless given a way to misbehave. What they do when given that chance determines what kind of person they are as you might say. I've found out I am too much of a rules oriented person to ever do more than dip my toe in the pool of chaos.

10/15/2008 11:22:27 AM
So a little about myself, I've been involved into the lifestyle in one way shape or form since I was old enough to understand the tenets of the psychological needs and desires of submissives, slaves and those they choose to serve. The local scene tends to be a bit of a meat market , striving for perfection of body mind and soul rather than taking into account the personal limitations held therein. They get too wrapped up in the fantasy of the perfect girl and dominant without realzing not everyone can kneel at your feet or have the body that would make people drool. Its nice to have physical attraction if your into that sort of hangup, to me the will of a submissive/slave to fulfill their needs with the right person is much more enjoyible. Your personality and demeanor make up the total package. granted, there has to be a modicum of attraction but why base it on something as trivial as how much you weigh or how many scars you might have. Doormats aren't what I'm after, nor a one time fling with random people after meeting them. Take me as I am, accept that my goal is to help you meet and exceed your needs.

All others need not apply.

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