Thirty -five + years have passed but I realised recently something about the childhood games I used to play with the girl next door when growing up. She was 18 months older than me & is respectably married with kids now.
We played loads of different games - Dr / Patient or nurse, emperor / conquered subject, Teacher / schoolgirl, Knight / damsel in distress, Jailer / captive, King / lady in waiting, Lord of manor / peasant girl, Duke / servant girl, pharoah / slave.
All theoretically very different games but a constant theme running through them. In the context of what I know about me now both interesting & illuminating.
(Tested the theory recently as I met her at a function & whilst funny to observe, it was noticeable she was keen to wait on me & serve me - far more than she did her husband. I concluded he is not dom but she is unquestionably submissive)

I am looking for a realistic situation that works in the real world. You will have a brain, are likely to be successful, would like children & are feminine. Someone who appears "normal" to the outside world but who longs for a relationship along traditional gender lines. A girl who likes being protected, cared for & having decisions made for her.
Your goal is to obey and to please. 

In answer to several friendly enquiries, yes I will BE at everyone's favourite fetish bash & will be running the KIDNAP CAGE (again) at the Night of the Senses (Sex Maniacs Ball). Say hi if you are there or planning to go.

Extremely irritated. Someone on this site has been using one of my pictures. What kind of loser / saddo / W**ker does this? Grow up.

The "Lifestyle" is about control.
My power expresses itself best when I can turn a girl on in a vanilla situation. I can make her feel sexy with a look, control her with a glare or make her horny with a twinkle in the eyes. A whispered command at a black tie function, a wry smile of expectation - leads to subtle, ladylike obedience.

An attractive, immaculately clad Lady, turning a few heads in a restaurant. She is dressed to please her Master. Nice figure....Great legs (how does she walk in those stillettos? )
Unbeknown to everyone else, she has done her hair, make up, nails to Master's specification. What no one else knows is that she is wearing stockings, a corset, maybe a chastity belt too. 
(there is lots of other fun you can have with the vanilla world like sending slave off to the Ladies to remove her knickers, trigger "command" words etc. I sometimes take a girl out in a polo neck with her collar still on underneath).

Of course behind closed doors there is a fantastic D/s chemistry but it is the subtle Master / slave interactions that go on in the vanilla world that give a huge buzz to both of you.