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I will say this is a long testimonial you are about to read about me. If you do not have the time, you may pass me up or come back to read later. Note if you do, I have the utmost respect for you taking the time to read and getting to know some of the many pieces of a puzzle that make up me.

My purpose here is to see a face, learn a name, hear a story. I am looking to meet new people in my area and make new friends and perhaps see what happens in due time. I am looking for a change, a new scenery away from friends I have right now. Though I have a few select "core" groups of friends through means of different social settings and occasions, you can never have enough friends.

At this junction in my life right now, I need to focus on getting back to school. It is only salutary. I think once I have my priorities in check, things will fall into place. So therefore, I would love the opportunity to potentially date and have a relationship, but realistically, I can certainly offer friendship right now and I would love the opportunity to hang out and make some friends along the way to go out for fun and entertainment. I think this is rather acceptable. Don't you?

So, who am I? What am I? The story goes like this: My name is Greg, I am of Ukrainian, Slovakian, and a dash of Canadian descent. My birthday falls upon the 14th of May (84'). I am 6'4, and I reside in Stratford, Connecticut. I graduated Housatonic Community College in downtown Bridgeport with high honors. My major was Criminal Justice before making the switch to General Studies in the Humanities and Liberal Arts (after switching majors finding out that I was just not into CJ). My final G.P.A. was a 3.50. Further schooling is on hold unto I know where I want to go in and what to major in. I work in a wine and spirits shop in Fairfield as a order receiver and floor associate. I declined and they let me go. I have been consulting a career counselor. I am still in the process of narrowing down and weighing all possible choices and things on the table. Out of my list of interests and indecisiveness accompanied with lack of passion and drive, I lately have been leaning towards going to Radio Broadcasting School and have been researching where to go if not in the state of Connecticut, in the Tri State or New England areas. Perhaps be a radio DJ for 99.1 WPLR or something like that. Maybe NPR or Sirius/XM Satellite Radio. Or perhaps even Film School. New York, NY.

Collectively bringing together what my friends, my parents, and my relatives have spoken about me, I can pass on to you what words that have been used to describe me.

They are:

"the total package," "an old soul," Soft-spoken and well spoken, a "chill guy,"passionate, creative, a good listener (I like to assuage a person's fears, doubts, and offer the best insight and advice I can offer), "a guy with a big heart or heart of gold," sweet, a shoulder to cry on, caring, watches out for people, a sarcastic/dry/dark sense of humor, energetic, honest, "keeps it real," thinks outside-the-box, at times wears emotions on sleeve, flawed, articulate, a person of "flow, smoothness," compromised, belligerent, ignorant, stubborn, steady, reliable, determined, focused, affectionate, charismatic, humble, well-rounded, cogent, well-mannered, a guy who "pulls no punches" and is honest, droll, outgoing, friendly, easy to be around with, considerate, charming, vivacious, pragmatic, deep-thinker, sentimental, sanguine, fervent, sterling, adroit, showing empathy and apathy, honest, terse/blunt, selfless while at times being selfish, idiosyncratic, pop culture oriented (music and movies), "a walking IMDB.com and movie quoter," a good listener, a dreamer, offers insight, introverted and extroverted (example: depending on the other individual or perhaps say, the size of a party if I can or cannot relate to people), flirtatious, serious (when need be), a planner, organizer, possesses hard work ethic, unique, cheerful, passionate, sets small and long term goals, eclectic, trustworthy, inquisitive, rational yet irrational, tentative, opinionated (in veracious sense, if the other person agrees with me or not) Cool as a cucumber and composed yet at times.

I am ever evolving and fluctuating. I consider myself fairly intelligent, though still have much to learn and soak up. I am inexplicably me. I am athletic, clean cut, casual, sensitive, deep rooted in customs and beliefs, strong ethics and morals. I share the positive and negative caricatures of Type A and Type B Personalities (From Type A: ambitious, slightly aggressive, high competitive--in sports, pushing myself with deadlines, and hate both delays and ambivalence to name a few. Wanting things done a certain ways. As for Type B: generally apathetic, patient, relaxed, and sensitive to the other person's needs and being easy-going to name a few). I would probably estimate that I am more Type B above Type A, but not overly with the aggressiveness but an even flow of balance. I consider myself a "left brain" thinker with traits of "right brain" thinking. Yet again, a balance. I also share some passive aggressiveness (i.e. through signs and manifestations). I characterize myself as making good judicious decisions. I have a nagging conscience on things that bother me and sometimes go by gut instinct in things. I can be scrupulous in nature, but not to a "T." I have been known to wear my emotions on my sleeve but bottle them up. Pensive cogitate thinker. I feel I exhibit a generally all around good demeanor. I am ISTFJ but do share ISTJ/ISFJ off of Myer's Brigg's results.

I tend to focus on the present and on concrete information gained from my senses. I tend to base my decisions on logic and on objective analysis of cause and effect. As I said before, being a planner and an organizer, it is this approach to life that I prefer to have things settled. I prefer to focus on the inner world of ideas and impressions. Lastly, I tend to base my decisions primarily on values and on subjective unless there is family or symbolic meaning to them). I know a lot of women on here find them as a turn on and I cannot seriously believe some would go so far as to have them mandatory to date a gentleman. I do not hold them to a high degree and regard them as inane, conspicuous, and salient no matter how striking they appear to be unless there is some significant family or symbolic meaning to them.

I try to take non-constructive criticism well when being chided or scolded but can't sometimes depending upon the situation. Yet when I bottle up the thought to myself, I sometimes fear the initial impression or non-constructive criticism (castigating me) about to be received. There is also the fear of being chided or rebuked. I own and live up to my errors and mistakes and I am never too proud to ask for forgiveness. I will definitely let you know when I have been tortious. I have patience. I will admit that I am slow on the pick up when learning something new if I do not understand (I am more of a hands on, visual learned rather than audio). I believe there is good in everyone. I possess slight OCD habits (cleaning, want things to happen or to fall into place right). My aptitude in learning is admittedly slow due to the fact I have a learning disability that stems from being ADD. Nevertheless, my mind is a sponge that soaks up material.

I sometimes have a tough time with recollection of knowledge when retained. I like to try new things and broaden my horizons. If I fail, I fail--it's back to the drawing board. I feel I am a good lover and a good kisser. I can be adventurous and have been known to do things spontaneously on a moment's notice. I am definitely an approachable, affable guy. I do my best to be a humanitarian and give back to the community. I like to give of my time, treasures, and talent. I do not welcome any unpleasant diatribes or anything other in repugnant nature. I treat everyone equally and with utmost respect. I do my very best to think before I speak. I can be gullible and at times tractable. and I do not throw in the towel so easily and I do enjoy a challenge and do my very best to conquer it. I fight the good fight. I do like to live it up. I am forgiving. I am sure you share the same cliched ideology that I share in which any sort of mind games, chicanery, or tom foolery in mind and heart is not appreciated. I feel some things in this country are rigmarole, such as high gas prices, Republicans/right wing, etc. I am not one to be taken for granted or to be taken lightly. I do not play mind games. I struggle. I am my own critic. I am hard on myself at times. I take the good with the bad and roll with the punches. Hey, every day is one more yard, right? I do my very best not to rebuke or reprimand anyone.

I try to take non-constructive criticism well when being chided or scolded but can't sometimes depending upon the situation. I own and live up to my errors and mistakes and I am never too proud to ask for forgiveness. I will definitely let you know when I have been tortious. I have patience. I will admit that I am slow on the pick up when learning something new if I do not understand (I am more of a hands on, visual learned rather than audio). I believe there is good in everyone. I possess slight OCD habits (cleaning, want things to happen or to fall into place right). My aptitude in learning is admittedly slow due to the fact I have a learning disability that stems from being ADD. Nevertheless, my mind is a sponge that soaks up material. Although I do like my fair share of leading, I also like to be a team player and work as a team when up for a challenge or a task. My Fetish/Kink: Primarily, I consider myself a Fetishist and my fetish is Balloons. The Story? Since I was a young teen, I've been into this fetish since I began to masterbate at an early age. I am awe struck and still fascinated to this day as to what makes me so aroused to balloons and what wires my mind mentally to behave the way I do. In the mid 90's, I began to explore more about the fetish and I subscribed to websites that cater to the needs of fellow "looners" (as we're called) that offered video clips and pictures for download. I also still continue to follow thread or message boards for individuals with my fetish and I from time to time, join these websites to view updated material. The fetish entails watching a woman or women perform various popping methods to BIG balloons (24-72 inches). My favorite method is watching a woman sit/bounce/ride/straddle/grind to pop big round balloons that I provide. Other popping methods that I am into are squeezing with body weight, fingernails, nails, sharp objects, stomping, and creative methods conjured up. I get aroused and off to watching women play, tease, then pop kind of like cat and mouse but with seduction and erotica involved in this, like a play or act. I would also from time to time get involved in the play or popping process too. The name of the game really is fun and some symbolism is involved in it, which, I would be more than happy to tell you more if you are interested. I would LOVE to incorporate this during sex or use it as an "appetizer" leading to sex. Accompanied with this fetish is the desire to photograph or take video with your expressed consent to be used on my profile, as fetish photography is one of my kinks. I also have a side fetish called "Wamming." That entails filling up a half under inflated or a fully inflated tight balloon in large size and diameter with chocolate syrup, shaving cream, whipped cream, ice cream, water, or any other kind of substance that is edible or non-edible. I will admit I have never done my kink with any woman but came close a couple of times. I know what I want to see and have done. I am very creative in conveying scenes and scenarios (role playing, popping methods, outfits, attire, etc.) Mental barrier/ problematic factors: 1. The LOCATION in order to carry out my fetish. 2. Time of day 3. Trust 4. Communication 5. Your comfort level (pops/bangs, any hesitation or awkwardness) 6. Noise factor (pops, bang--ear plugs provided for. I might be wearing them myself for anticipation of pops by popping method, lol) 7. My arousal factor (Can I be comfortable around you getting myself off in my unique masterbation technique. Ask if curious). I am not really a switch though I consider to have switch tendencies. I really consider myself a fetishist and a kinkster and collarme does not have this feature or "other" available to me and many others on this site. Additionally what I am looking for on Collarmeis a fellow fetishist or kinkster, a submissive, or a domme/mistress to learn how to dom and possibly serve and use control and methods to curb my fear of pops made by some pretty big balloons (I am curious to go through such an experience). Play partners, make new friends, meet new people in the Tri-State and New England area, engage in extracurricular activities, possibly date and develop a monogamous LTR. Please, no married or attached couples. Furthermore, not interested in Poly. I am not putting any hopes, guarantees, expectations, or aspirations into anything on Collarme. If you are interested in getting to know me more, by all means, my door is always open to everyone. Lastly, I would like to say I am on FL under "LoonerGreg84." Thanks for stopping by and taking the time to read. ~Greg~

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