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| Update 12/19/2014:
I've left my original text in place below but know what I want now. Problem is once again it's inline with my Gemini/switch nature...
My sub side which has never been allowed to flourish needs to serve, be trained, be topped. It needs to learn. Learn what it FEELS like, emotionally, psychologically, physically. I know the planning, care, effort, yes even love, it takes to be the Dominant. Is it so wrong to want this? Perhaps it's selfish but I do know even as a Dom my whole being was focused on pleasing my sub. I desire a strict, yet sensual Domme to lead me.
My Dom side I've learned is more 'Primal'. I don't need protocol. It has its place but I need submission because I earned it and want you to submit. Fully. I want to use my hands, teeth, belt as I take you. Control you. Own you. I desire a strong, intelligent, ideally primal submissive.
There has to be an emotional, intellectual and physical attraction and connection for me. It's a tall order to fill but I'm optimistic despite my pessimistic/realist side laughing.
A little about me:
I'm a high tech business professional living in PA but currently working in NYC (stay here mid-week). I like good food, shows, active sports participation (but not the normal ball sports) but equally comfortable snuggling in front of a fire, watching a movie, drinking hot chocolate.
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Greetings everyone!? I'm a Gemini so maybe that's why I'm a Switch. I always see both sides of everything and enjoy doing most anything.? I've done things even I can't believe I've done and will share with the right person or persons.
My current part-time lover is female, a total sub, and we've been friends for over 15years, the last 5 of which have been as playmates.? Problem is I had to move for work and we are now many, many hours apart.? We are both looking for local playmates and it is possible she would be willing to play occasionally (given enough planning).
So why am I here? Honestly, I don't know right now... I am on Alt but a basic member there and for now unwilling to upgrade. Nothing has given me a reason to do so.? So I'm hoping this site will lead to new friends, playmates, lovers and more... So send me a note, say hello and tell me why you are here.
Yes, I'll post a pic once I feel comfortable on here and/or will post my other contact details for those interested and desiring to contact me outside of here.
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Is politeness and common courtesy lost here? I understand some do not want to play with a Bi Male Switch but if all I do is say hello, welcome, pay a compliment etc. does nobody think a reply would be the nice, kind and proper thing to do?
When I really spend the time to write something meaningful, explain who I am and what I'm looking for and ask how I can help/be of service and even send a pic (real & recent) and still get no response I wonder what I'm doing here.
Would you behave this way were I to say hello on the street, in a bar, at the park?
Yes, I'm having a bad day. I'm annoyed, frustrated and miss my very far away play partner terribly. |
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So I'm switching my profile back to my real orientation of being Bisexual. Why? Because I don't care what anyone else thinks anymore... Interesting how a Bi Female Switch is desired but a male is loathed? My how we 'alternative' lifestyle folks are so open and accepting of differences and gender-blind... Sigh. |
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| Age: 27 |
| Tokyo,
Japan |
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