i know the you have to be let's say..........."different" just to be in the lifestyle enough to actively join a website like this and meet people with the same unique taste's. but so far i have only met 1 person out of 4 that i have had prolonged contact with, that didnt end up making me regreat talking to them in the first place. is it just me or does this life style and and the kinda of people in it tend to attract people that are distrubed mentally? id truely love to know people's thoughts