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| I'm relatively new to the lifestyle, but have long wanted to explore my submissive side. I'm looking to get involved in the community and find a play partner.
I am interested in the power exchange of a D/s relationship. The idea of giving up control--whether its being tied up, gagged, blindfolded, spanked/whipped, tortured, or any type of forced play--and being used by someone for their pleasure fascinates me.
I take great joy in serving and pleasing others (both domestically and sexually) and have long thought about serving in a 24/7 TPE D/s relationship. The idea of completely submitting to someone--giving them my mind, body, and soul--and focusing on their needs and desires and the power exchange that accompanies that type of relationship excites me. Unfortunately, the realities of work and life have prevented me from serving in that capacity.
It is the D/s dynamic which I seek. The opportunity to completely submit to another individual, share in the power exchange that it offers, serving them to the best of my abilities. I have served others in various forms (volunteering, crewing on yachts, working as an EMT, teaching, etc..) throughout my life, and I get no greater satisfaction. Combining that desire with my submissive personality and my strong desire to completely submit to another human being in the unique situation that the D/s lifestyle provides would be ideal. It is this which I seek.
Outside of the lifestyle, I'm extremely active and love spending time in the outdoors, running, skiing, sailing, hiking, and enjoy playing the piano during the rare periods I can get my hands on one. I'm well educated, have a great job that takes me all over the world, and love to listen to live music whether its at a jazz club, a concert, or just listening to a local band play in a bar.
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I've never understood Pro-Dommes. Paying someone else to do what you want doesn't make any sense to me. Its not what I want, but what the Dom/Domme wants. While I may enjoy being tied up and whipped, if the Dom/Domme does not enjoy it, what's the point??? For me, its about completely submitting to someone else, satisfying THEIR NEEDS and THEIR DESIRES, not mine, and sharing in the unique exchange of power present in a D/s relationship. The Dom/Domme I'm looking for must truly want to have complete control over someone. Their pleasure must be more than simple financial gain.
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