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	I absolutely have pictures if you are interested just read the profile first.Im generally a nice, funny, warm, single attractive guy. Looking at me from the outside youd see someone who is an ambitious, driven, well off white collar professional. I appear normal and Im sure I could get an attractive normal vanilla girl if I desired it. I dont.What Im looking for is a girl who either has a very low intelligence, wishes she did or enjoys pretending she does. If you are aroused at the thought of a man treating you as if you are dim and calling you stupid, dumb or other names in apaternalsweet sort of waythen you might be the girl for me. If the thought of a smarter man running your life andtakingcare of you so you dont have to worry about anything sounds very attractive... then we should talk. I know what I want and I wont settle for anything less than a girl who shares this same kinkfetish with me. Im not really that attracted to the typical bimbo personalook. I suppose I find the mousy, awkward, alternative girl the most attractive. I am not looking to abuse ordamageanyone - this is just a fetishkink.If you find my fetish offensive or unappealing, by all means move along. Im actually quite kind when Im not degrading or humiliating a girl. I enjoy taking care of girls and spoiling them.Ivedone this before, so if you are new to this or its scary you can still approach me and we can just talk. If you are generally curious about this kink Id be glad to educate you. Im open to something long term and serious if the connection is strong. Some other things I enjoy (none of which are required) Age-play. If you like to be immature and often act like a childteenager that is a good thing. Being called Daddy is fun! Bi-sexual and open to playing with girls or just curious. Rape-play. If you fantasize about being forced into sexual acts its a plus. Masochist. Im not huge into giving pain but if you like it thats a good thing I wont cyber with you (so if you are fake dont waste your time). I route all messages from couples and males to the trash. I will get to know you online with the intention of actual meeting you when we are both comfortable (not in the first week but Im not going to chat for months). I will travel if required and if there are real sparks I will relocate someone to me if the connection is strong. Again - I know what I want. Are you the girl for me?

3/4/2014 8:37:16 AM

I've had a lot conversations and questions answered since I started this profile. I thought I'd put a few down here. I'm obviously ignoring the stupid/offensive ones.

1) You seem so smart - what could you possibly find attractive about a dumb girl? While intelligent conversation is enjoyable ... I do have friends (both male and female) who can provide that. What I really love is taking care of a girl who either really needs my help or wants it. I *really* enjoy paternal aspect. I love seeing a girl who might be a little insecure realize that someone will accept her kinks and desires for what they are. And of course there is the humiliation and sadism sexual fetish/kink that goes along with it *laughs*.

2) Why would a smart girl like to pretend to be stupid? Same as any other girl might want to role-play non-consensual play or age-play. It's just a kink.

3) What kind of girl is into that? From my experience girls I seem to connect with tend to be fairly smart and very self-aware - but they have this kink hidden deep down that they don't tell anyone about. It's something very personal to them and sort of scary - but at that same time very arousing. When a girl is finally to the breaking point where she needs to explore that kink - that is where I come in :).

4) I'm your girl! I just happen to live in *somewhere far away*. Can we Talk? While I have the resources to travel and even relocate a girl she would have be something pretty amazing for me to spend that kind of effort. She would also have to grab my attention from the get go and tell me why we are a good match because frankly I don't have the time to explore a girl without something that tells me we might be a good match. So if you are more than a 4 hour drive from me your message better be pretty direct and to the point about what you have to offer.

5) Why don't have a pic up?I'm a professional and I'm not about to risk this profile being discovered by friends/family. That said I have absolutely no qualms about sharing a picture on the very first message.

8/19/2013 9:39:53 AM

I think some are under the impression I'm looking for the classical augmented blond bimbo.

That is not the case. I don't find the hyper-sexed blond bimbo with huge tits and lips stereotype even attractive.

I've had the best luck with an intelligent classy girl who get turned on by the idea of not having to think around her Dom.... OR a normal pretty girl who has a gut instinct that they just aren't that smart and like the thought of someone finding that quality attractive for once.

There is no specific "look" I particularly dislike (i.e. hair color, race, style) though if you are overweight it will be difficult for me to be attracted to you.