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| I'll start out with this tidbit...I'm a married man in an open relationship. We are both looking for a special friend on the side of our own great relationship. Neither of us is looking for a bunch of people to sleep with, just one, one each, that we can enjoy individually without one another. We both have different needs that neither one of us can fulfill for the other, thus our need and desire to fulfill those needs with another outside our marriage. And no, we will not be doing a 3 some or more some.
Not that's out of the way, let's get down to the business at hand. For as long as I can remember or at least since I've been sexually active, I've been in the Dominant. I've explored all sides of my Dominant side from the mild to the sadistic. With all experiences taken into consideration, I'm left with a middle of the road sense of needs and desires. I'm no expert in any of the avenues I've taken through this BDSM lifestyle, but I also have more experience than the average novice. With that being said, or typed, what I'm looking for in my "side" relationship is a woman whom is passive and giving, one who knows her place in life is as a submissive or slave. She should feel deep within that doing for another gives her the most personal satisfaction. I don't need a doormat, but I also don't need a loud mouth Queen. I'm looking for more of the quite type, the wall flower, the one who's always felt alone. I need a woman who not only wants a Dominant Man in her life, but wants one that she can spend good, quality time with both in and out of the bed room. I'm not one to take someone for granted; with the one I find, I'll give love and support in return for her submissive gift to me. I'm not hung up on age and actually prefer a woman of a certain maturity, weight isn't an issue either as long as it doesn't inhibit your ability to move or serve/service. Race, hair color, and religion isn't important either. I do want a woman without any STD's, that's HIV-, understands the importance of hygiene, is a non-smoker, light to non drinker, and a non drug user.
This whole profile is long for a reason and if you've read this far then keep going... What you should expect if you are the "chosen" one. At least once or twice a week, you'll come to me or I'll come to you with the occasional weekend get-away possible. We'll spend our time with one another. In public you'll be exactly what you are in private, my submissive, passive girlfriend. I will not and to not believe in embarrassing or belittling you, you're role will simply be seen as a loving girlfriend. Behind closed doors the before mentioned does not change, in order for you to respect me I need to respect you in return. In the beginning, we'll take your training slowly, one step at a time until you fully understand what is expected of you. I do believe in corrective discipline and use spankings for the corrective action, but only when warranted. Session wise, I do enjoy an equal mix of sex with general play. Sex wise, I love receiving blow jobs and rim jobs, full body massages, cuddling, and having anal and vaginal intercourse. BDSM wise, I'm big into spanking, breast play, vaginal play, dildo and vibe insertion, vaginal fingering to fisting (if able), light bondage, orgasm control, blind folds, gags, candle wax, outdoor bondage (when privacy is available), kneeling and other submissive positions, breast-vaginal and the occasional face slapping, vaginal and breast clamps/clips, cloth pins, and a few other things. I DO NOT EVER do anything with needles, sharp edges, guns, poo, vomit, blood, or anything illegal, life threatening, something that will cause permanent bodily damage. I love tattoos on women so if you want to get one in my honor then awesome, if not, no problem, but I'm not going to make you get one, or get a piercing, or do any other bodily modification other than maybe trim down there every so often. Something that you probably haven't read elsewhere before now is that after every session, before we depart ways, I will give something special to you for your submission/service. It won't be money, but instead either something sexual that only you pleasure from or a little time with a bubble bath or foot/body massage. It's important to me that you feel more than just a piece of property, because you will be way more than that to me.
If you've read this far then maybe you're the one for me. Write me, tell me something about yourself like your favorite color or what kind of music you enjoy. If you're shy, no problem, we'll start off slow and take it from there. I will want to meet at some point and we'll do so in a public place over coffee or a bite to eat, my treat. If we click, then we'll move forward, if not, then nothing is lost and they'll be no hard feelings, such is life...sometimes good, sometimes not...
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