I despise the stupid games that people play; the idea that this lifestyle is for sexual gratification only. This lifestyle is just that, a lifestyle. The one lesson I have learned in this “lifestyle” is that different people have different definitions to the same words; slave, submissive, Master and Dominate can mean different things so being on the same page is key.

I seek a partner; someone who fills the roll of my true submissive/slave, someone I can guide and control and who I can be cruel to when I feel it is necessary but who I can also love and protect. To the vanilla eye she is my wife but we know the truth, if you mouth off to me you know I will punish once we get home. I don’t want to control bathroom breaks and meals but expect you to ask for permission if you want to leave your post next to me.

I hope this gives you an idea of what it is I am looking for. I hope to hear back from you soon.