Saw this on another profile and I really liked it so I am going to post it on my profile. "A submissive chooses her Dom carefully, after which her Dom chooses everything else for her. "Leadership is a matter of deep introspection and the resulting clarity. First the self is dealt with and controlled. Only then can one take on the responsibility of controlling a consentual captive and molding her mind and body like wet clay in an owners fingers.
Getting control and power is easy the true measure of an owner is what is it he creates out of his pliable treasure. a owner is a coach, mentor, guide.
It is a lot like the difference in real estate between a “renter” and an “Owner”. The renter carelessly trashes a property in wild play then moves out at midnight to avoid the rent. The “Owner” instead invests in his property and lovingly improving it for his selfish long-term enjoyment at a profoundly deeper level.
I will update more soon.
4/12/2012 12:43:32 PM
Today is my very first day on collarme. Thank you all for the great welcome. I think I am really going to like this site.
