About me.. hmmmmm. Ive been thinking about this for awhile now. In some BDSM groups I have had people comment on my being married and being alone in the lifestyle, often not good comments. My lovely wife and I have been married for 18 years and still going strong. I guess you could say we are somewhat poly. I shy away from the word swingers as we don't really consider ourselves swingers although we do have an open relationship. She has no interest in the BDSM lifestyle but has given me her blessings to enjoy it myself. If that doesn't work for you I understand but I don't care for your negative comments.

Fetishes, I have many. I lean more to the sensual\mental side of play. I do enjoy giving a good bare hand spanking. Floggers and paddles aren't really my thing but I can enjoy using them from time to time. I hope to own a violet wand one day and to learn fire play. The fire is so beautiful as it dances across your soft sensitive skin.

I seek friendship in the lifestyle most of all. Secondly I seek a play partner who is a submissive. I do not seek to collar anyone at this time, as my play time is limited, but would ask them to wear my collar when we are together. I desire to enjoy them as well as teach them and learn from them. I would love to explore your body and your mind.... in many ways