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	I am a single experienced dominant/master [an 'endorphin pusher' if you like] who is seeking a female submissive or slave for a safe, sane and consensual BDSM relationship. Unlike some doms I am serious about seeking a LONG TERM relationship and that includes marriage if the right person comes into my life. Ideally I would like to stay away from the organised BDSM 'scene' and concentrate on a relationship which could be outwardly vanilla but internally BDSM or even 24/7 if both parties agree and we can make it work. The neighbours and friends do not need to know. So if you are not 'out' as a BDSM person and want to live quietly off scene or at the edge of the scene kindly contact me. Ideally you should be a submissive who has a clear idea of who YOU are and what YOU want from life, from BDSM and from our relationship. If you prefer to submit in private only and are an articulate and independent woman the rest of the time then that is just fine with me. Equal in life but unequal in the bedroom can be a good recipe for success. I would consider a 'slave' who wants 'total control' and direction in her life but I have often found that those who claim to want this rarely follow through with the commitment and hard work which is necessary to achieve it. Sometimes idle wishes really have to be worked-for. Loyalty to the relationship is highly desireable and you will find your loyalty rewarded with mine. Any relationship between us would be monogamous. I don't do 'poly' or cosy affairs. Married ladies seeking a bit on the side please look elsewhere. I'm a person who has been 'burned' before and I know that people of either gender play games. People can be absolute shits. So expect caution from me in the early days. I am willing to talk to anyone who is interested in meeting an articulate dom who has a point of view on life. I have adult children now living away from home and would be equally happy talking to any single mothers as I am still family-orientated. I am a non-smoker and prefer the company of non-smokers. My hard limits are no scat, no blood, no animals and no children in a sexual context. Everything else is open to consideration and negotiation. I enjoy the company of women who are comfortable with experiencing pain and receiving consensual humiliation. In that way I am a classic sadist. However I will only consider meeting people who are also comfortable with the fact that I have some quite liberal personal values [for a dom] and I truly believe that men and women have an equal right to choose their sexual identity. I am a consensual sadist who enjoys the control which this role affords me but I would run a million miles from genuine partner abuse. If you have been the victim of such abuse yourself then I hope you will understand the clear distinctions. My interests list is neither compulsory nor exclusive. This list can be discussed in detail with me if you make contact. I have interests outside the world/lifestyle of BDSM and I would particularly like to meet someone with whom I could share these other interests, even if it is just a walk or a drive in the country. Do you want to sit on a beach and throw stones in the water? Count me in. I have the normal 'vanilla' aspirations of happiness and contentment plus, of course, the BDSM expectations and desires as well. There is more to a relationship than just the quantity of the sex and the style of sex which we both find fulfilling. There is also companionship and real friendship, feeling comfortable with the silences and giving each other the space we each sometimes need within a relationship to make it work. No-one can live life at full throttle. Relationships are the same. I have NO preconceptions about your age, I have no preconceptions about your physical appearance as I believe that what is in the heart and mind are far more important than mere looks. Those people who lavish money on their clothes and their appearance often forget that the personality and the 'soul' can be far more attractive than the superficials. I do ask that you be honest and straight-forward in all things. Would-be 'game players' please apply elsewhere, I am not interested. All approaches will be treated with utmost confidence. I will do nothing to embarrass or compromise you. People who contact me will receive a genuine home telephone number and not some mobile number which changes every five minutes. I am single, my life is an open book and I have nothing to hide.

7/5/2012 2:00:15 PM

I am now looking at moving to Norfolk, sooner rather than later.

6/8/2012 6:05:31 PM

It's my birthday.

4/25/2012 6:05:55 AM

I have an amazing amount of male doms checking me out. Any reason lads?

2/18/2012 7:31:54 AM

Beware of the 'mother and daughter' who offer to come to your home for a schoolgirl scene. Strangely the pair refused to make voice contact or supply a photo holding up a sign with my name on it. 'They' had supplied a nice face photo - I wonder where they nicked it from and who the people really are?

2/17/2012 1:28:15 PM

Genuine lifestyle dominant seeks genuine female submissive. OK, I'm here - where are you?

2/16/2012 10:05:39 AM

Another month and another collection of time wasters and total phonies - with one notable exception. I had a very nice dinner date with a lady in Kent. We had made contact via another site, we were telephone chatting the same day and we met the next day. Sadly there was no real connection between us so there was no follow-up.

Apart from her I've had time wasters and one blatant confidence trickster - the woman who got me to talk to her on Yahoo, then activated her webcam, flopped her breasts out and insisted that I send her £50 to buy the food she was going to cook for us plus the cancer drugs her mother so badly needed. All a complete con as she only had a very hazy idea where 'Chelsea' was in London. I doubt very much she was even in the UK.

Still life goes on... where's a genuine female submissive when you really want one?

1/18/2012 10:58:30 AM

I just exchanged emails with a lovely lady. It is so rare to get rapid or courtesy replies on internet dating sites so I must express my gratitude. Unfortunately she also emailed to say that she is a smoker and that might be an obstacle to a long-term relationship. Of course she was right but I cannot let her courtesy go past without a public thank you.

9/11/2011 1:48:02 PM

And I've edited my photos as well. I hope they are showing now.

9/10/2011 12:50:49 PM

I have totally changed my profile text tonight. There is more to me than mere words. If you want to know anything about me then ask.

7/29/2011 4:55:57 PM

Partial email and internet connection tonight, the first in five weeks.

My apologies to anyone who has been unable to contact me.

6/22/2011 10:02:28 AM

Due to moving I will have no email or broadband for about two weeks as services are set up at my new address.

11/10/2009 8:05:17 AM

Is it my imagination or is everyone on Collarme either a timewaster or a never-was? I'm genuine but the people I seem to end up talking-to either have not got a clue or appear to be men pretending to be women. Oh and I get interesting emails from 'women' in Africa offering me exciting ways to part me from my money. Are there any genuine submissive women on Collarme seeking a long term relationship?

9/14/2009 1:23:47 PM

Tonight I am drinking tea, eating Jammy Dodgers and watching the first series of Six Feet Under on DVD. Together with new Battlestar Galactica Six Feet Under is some of the best television to come out of the USA.

7/18/2009 4:32:53 PM

It's been a long time since I posted here and much has happened. If you want to know more than ask me. My life is an open book.

4/30/2008 4:57:32 PM

She shivers, the ropes tighten She shivers, the chains creak and crack above her She shivers, she hears the whistle of the cane passing her back She shivers, he strokes her skin with the back of his hand. He shivers... she smiles

12/31/2007 1:25:33 PM

Running up to New Year. 2007 was not the best year I have ever had. I am hoping that 2008 will be better.

11/23/2007 1:07:18 PM

I spent last night at the British Museum in London. They now open late three nights a week and I found walking around the spot-lighted galleries interesting and inspirational as both a historian and a photographer. I will post some of my museum photos on my Flickr profile later.

10/28/2007 2:10:31 PM

I don't make many journal entries here as I prefer to use my weblog elsewhere. Safe to say that I am still looking and I am still optimistic that I will find a loving safe, sane and consensual relationship.

11/21/2005 11:46:32 AM

Well like the profile says I am an experienced dom. I was a dungeon monitor at Torture Garden for over a year and I believe in safe play - and hard play. I am still looking and I still believe that the best sort of BDSM comes from long-term relationships and not just 'screwing around'. I have a romantic side and I do believe in true love in a BDSM context.