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| I'm a classic alpha male, naturally dominant and something of a ?driven? personality. I have a good life, great friends, a decent career, and all I really lack is the sub/slave of my dreams ? I've had some great relationships in my time (and the odd bad one!), but never found my ?one?, hence me being here. ? I'm happy in my own company so I don't feel the need to ?play? with just anyone, and I'd rather be alone for the right reasons than with someone for the wrong ones.
I'm highly experienced as I started dominance at a very young age (late teens), in somewhat odd circumstances, and continued to experiment throughout my life. I'm not interested in one night stands as I think the best Master/slave experiences happen as part of an ongoing relationship, not as part of a quickie. Doesn't mean we have to be love's young dream, but it does have to be more than a one-off.
I enjoy a wide variety of BDSM ?activities?, but I don't need to do them all every time; for me it's more about the connection and general interaction than it is about a ?checklist? or ?do this, then that? approach. I'm a thoughtful, spontaneous, patient and somewhat intense (though very self-controlled) man and that carries over into my BDSM ?world?. I like a lot of things, as my lists show, especially spanking, canes & crops, protocol, TPE, age play/Daddy Dom, etc.
I'm fair, but I'm also strong, strict and dominant ? I have no interest in switching, ever, and I enjoy myself more the more dominant I am. And what I "like" depends on my interaction with a girl ... some things feel "right" with some girls, but sometimes it's other things that interest me.
About you:
You could be a slave, or maybe highly submissive. You should understand your need for submission, or be open-minded enough to want to explore it. You don't have to be experienced, and indeed I enjoy developing inexperienced girls, but you should be attractive, submissive and eager to both please and learn. If you're the sort who enjoys topping from the bottom then you're liable to be punished regularly, and eventually shown the door ? I'm not interested in girls who are merely playing at this ? dominant isn't something I do, it's something I am, and your submission should be something that matters to you in a similar way.
Outside of BDSM my interests are many and varied, and include anything with an internal combustion engine (fast bikes and cars, of which I have both), cooking (I'm a skilled cook in many different cuisines), reading (of anything and everything, fiction or non-fiction), history, travel (especially to France & Italy, where I go regularly), film/movies and photography. Above all I have a lust for life ? a drive and passion for the good things and experiences that a good life brings; I don't want a life that's easy, or ?safe?, or dull - I want a life that's fun, exciting and as passionate as I am.
If in doubt, come chat and we'll see if there's that elusive spark I'm looking for.
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