Teach me how to submit, Totally. Completely. With and without fear. I am not looking to be used for your pleasure without any concern for mine and  my ultimate well being..
I am looking for a good friend with benefits, not a dating type of relationship... although I am NOT looking for anything LONG TERM please know if we do start speaking that does not mean I will be going out of my way to (hook up) with you the next day, I will need to get to know you first and get comfortable, then meet for coffee or maybe drinks (nice public places) and we can go from there, the time frame really depends on if we connect ( if ya get my meaning.. hahaha) please know I have very limited free time, I work like a crazy woman.. some weeks up to 70 hours, my work and personal life are very demanding so if you don't hear back from me right away it because I'm on overload...
I am very new to this (thing) lifestyle, scene, choice, really not sure how to label it.. this is something that I have always be attracted to and never had the nerve to ask for it.. (well that's not true I've asked for it once and was told that I was being silly and not normal...) So you may ask what am I into but at this point I'm not sure.. I do believe I will much more enjoy the mental aspect of being a sub but please don't get me wrong I also like to get a little rough too... and I KNOW MY VERY VERY HARD LIMITS will have anything to do with Electrical Play,Fisting,Needle Play,Fire Play,Knife Play,Watersports, this is just way to far for me..  

I have been on this site for a short time and have talked to a few really nice people so far, but I have also been overloaded with emails if you take the time to send me a message I will try to reply even if it is just to let you know that I am not interested at this time... so thank you for taking the time to read what I have so far,, this will always be a work in progress and will update as I can...

and before anyone asks as a side note: I am not a size 2 little stick figure,I do have curves, about 5'7, Short dark hair, glasses