I recieved this reveiw of my work recently:
*meltymelt*
It is so nice to play with someone who is respectful of the pre-set boundaries. It makes play so much better, when you feel comfortable enough that your Hard limits will not be pushed, and that you will be safe. I haven't known you long, but I am an excellent judge of character, and I have to say that I felt completely "safe" with you, in that very important way. Thank you for being trustworthy. If you ever find yourself in need of a character reference (or a biting reference for that matter...LOL) I would sign it.

Kinda says it all really.  :)