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Hetero Male Dominant, 35,  Los angeles, California
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Im real, looking for the eventual LTR, if this is just an online thing for you and are not open to eventually meeting lazy afternoon coffee or dinner out have fun but, we are not a good match )

I love BDSM and the passion of it all and the little subculture its more or less created but, I dont build my life around it. I own my own small company, and have a reputation to uphold more or less and yes, I am looking for all the intimacy and meaningfulness of vanilla relationship behind closed doors Im a complete pervert and if youre about to contact me youd probably best to be one as well. I LOVE the idea of having the best of both worlds and not making my life around bdsm that being said little kinky games daily make life interesting, Im saying some toys wont find their way into a vanilla night out as long as its nice and covert which I think adds to the fun. Full disclosure I used to be extremely promiscuous never attempted to hide it. Basically Im looking for pervert who can deal with all the regular girlfriend stuff like thanksgiving dinner and not acting weird at family BBQs and such. As far as casual play I enjoy it, Ive toned it WAY down last few years simply because Im aiming for the LTR but, I have no moral issue with anyone looking for no strings fun, my only rules are condoms, sobriety and Im not going to fuck you if your boyfriendhusbandsignificant other hasnt given you the free pass.

Ideally looking for a subslave bi preferable, MUST be able to hold a conversation and be sane. Its really odd how most people dont pass this test these days. We all have our youthful indiscretions but, if you been 5150d in the last 6 month you probably should click the next profile.

Im EXTREMELY passionate about my job and as stressful as it is, it afforded me a house and when things go right its extremely satisfying. I crack safes, hotwire cars and do some light PI work now and then. I cant go back to having a desk job so boring, I hate it, not for me. I love working with my hands usually fixing things, minor upgrades to my house, car and other small projects. I build build damn near anything out of metalwoodplastic and I know a thing or two about auto repair and electrical work.

Im very passionate about music especially 90s grunge STP was one of my favorite bands of all time RIP Scott Weiland also, I was crushed when I hear Chris Cornell killed himself RIP Chris. I can listen to music for hours on end not a fan of all the pop crap engineered and processed like its a fast food cheeseburger but, Ill deal with it. Im equally passionate about film, newoldindyforeign my favorite films include Alien 1979, Gattaca 1996, black hawk down, Guardians of the galaxy was so awesome honestly I dont understand who anyone could NOT like t hat film.

My perfect day of would probably be something like going to the Getty museum I love art especially the darker stuff HUGE HR Gieger fan (google him, not while eating) I could just wander around up there for days, I like quiet outdoors kind of things like museums, topanga canyon hikes, the beach is always great although I hate crowds. I make my own schedule so I love to sneak out tues-thursday when nobody is around. Ill go to a club now and then but, I hate the rules (honestly WTF? no third base or sex in a BDSM club? whatever...)

Regarding the likes and dislikes of BDSM bondage, control, light humiliation, sensory dep, light impact play but I dont consider myself a sadist. I have my own suspension rig and I live alone so theres not much I cant do especially if you have a specific fetish Ive never tried I am ALL ABOUT trying new things kink or otherwise.











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 Dominant Male

 Los angeles 


 5' 8"

 190 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

Friends Only

 Lives For:



 Art Galleries

 Bar Hopping



 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining




 Musical Theater




 Amusement Parks

 Bird Watching

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales



 Curious About:

 Antique Shows

 Going to the Opera


 Renaissance Faires


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Journal Entries:
3/30/2018 9:23:05 PM
"I hate to advocate drugs, alcohol, violence, or insanity to anyone, but they've always worked for me.”

-Hunter S. Thompson

3/13/2018 8:49:23 PM

I just can't get enough of this track...

3/8/2018 5:47:40 PM
When your water heater breaks there are two ways to look at it:

A: oh fuck, now I need to pay somebody $700.

B: well I'm fucking glad I know how to fix a water heater right now.

I pride myself on my Independence. 

3/2/2018 1:21:49 AM
Fucking ex, she texts me begging to come back to me after I just get back into the fun of dating... If there is a god he/she has a sense of humor or he/she is just a mean cunt.

2/26/2018 12:13:14 AM
...doing 5 miles in the middle of the night 45 degrees, great exercise but I think my neighbors are suspecting I'm a weird person.

2/14/2018 9:40:38 PM
A brand new Nixon watch was delivered at my house today addressed to me by name and I have no idea who sent it. How many people knew I collect watches?

1/12/2018 3:59:02 PM
original profile pic changed apparently too controversial, which is kind of odd considering what this place is all about...? meh

1/1/2018 4:59:29 PM
A friend of mine showed me what its like have a female profile on here... WTF. Why do men message women they are 30 years their senior and not even in the same fucking state? The other half are a bunch of creeps and weirdo's you'd mistake for Hannibal Lector minus the intelligence. If you're a guy why do you have pics of some girl you fucked 4 years ago as your profile pic?

12/6/2017 4:51:36 PM
I'm on and off here but wtf happened to this place it crashes every 10 mins now?

10/31/2017 5:44:09 PM

9/17/2017 1:28:30 AM


9/16/2017 5:11:04 PM
lol why does CS tell people I LIVE in Vegas...?

9/8/2017 6:41:28 PM
currently in vegas : D

8/22/2017 6:46:26 PM
Vegas in two weeks, please please please please make this week go fast. I'm watching the clock like a dog watches his dinner about to be served.

Anyone stay at the hardrock?  I was going hard rock or bellagio for the hotel.

6/14/2017 12:57:22 PM
If you tell people that they are easy to manipulate, does that make them easier or more difficult to screw with?

4/22/2017 2:44:15 AM
I had an epiphany today, Life's hardships are a test, a weak person gives up proverbially rolls over and takes it. A warrior retorts: FUCK YOU! IS THAT -ALL- YOU HAVE TO CHALLENGE ME?!?!?

I'd rather die the latter than live a thousand years than the former, my literal scars attest this truth. 

2/6/2017 12:09:25 AM
OK I love my house, but, damn the responsibility of a home owner never effing ends.

11/10/2016 10:10:36 PM
I hate to advocate drugs, alcohol, violence, or insanity to anyone, but they've always worked for me.

-Hunter S Thompson

10/9/2016 10:31:34 PM
One of best covers of "paint it black" by the rolling stones ever.

9/27/2016 11:02:33 PM
apparently glam rock is not dead, who knew?

7/30/2016 8:45:17 PM
welding is a 250lb gate is exhausting

7/15/2016 9:52:50 PM
When life gives you lemons, build a gun that fires high velocity lemons.

-Ancient Chinese proverb

7/5/2016 1:19:34 AM
Buying a house is a like any other major purchase great deal of pride and joy then you realize how much time you're going to be spending on the details like the windows blinds and the furniture...

4/12/2016 2:39:19 PM
People always forget how relaxing a day at the museum/public garden can be, to all those who haven't been /heard of the Peterson take an afternoon to check it out, its amazing.

2/29/2016 2:11:26 AM
Life is good... minus the hangovers.

-Friedrich Nietzsche

Its fucking terrible I'll never see another live STP performance though : (

2/14/2016 2:00:23 AM
I LOVE valentines day for all the wrong reasons : D

2/9/2016 12:57:58 AM
Sometimes things dont always work out as planned and the day looks like a wash then out of left field amazing things happens.

I haven't had a "bad day" in 5 years, I only have days when "things didn't go as planned" : )

This world is 90% how you approach it but, damn life is just good and that's all that matters.


2/7/2016 9:01:19 PM
I appreciate all the out of state mail I get from quite honestly some pretty amazing people but unless your're in LA or planning on moving to LA or visiting LA etc lets save the space in the mailbox : )

1/15/2016 12:51:32 PM

RIP Scott

1/4/2016 12:56:41 PM
I have no moral judgement but I think its hilarious when the "financial dommes" here rage out in their journal entries about how nobody wants to give them "internet monies". I'm all for free market capitalism but you do realize porn is pretty much free on the internet at this point? Its ironic they freak out someone wants something for free which is pretty much the entire concept of a "financial domme", as in doing nothing and getting paid.

10/23/2014 10:38:41 AM
losing weight, making ridiculous amounts of money and enjoying the hell out of my sex life, really no complaints other than the hangovers.

9/26/2014 12:06:41 AM
Sometimes life is good and that's all that matters.

9/24/2014 10:22:10 PM
flying down sunset behind the wheel of a 2014 mustang convertible with the stereo blasting big data the world gets just a bit more interesting.

8/12/2014 4:24:47 PM
If I don't respond the same day don't throw a fucking tantrum, I dont even know you for fucks sake. meh...

7/25/2014 3:40:56 PM
jacuzzi party! fuck yeah

7/18/2014 6:57:27 PM
hollywood hills kink party tonight fuck yeah!

7/14/2014 1:14:48 AM
Every now and then I see someone laughably in denial on CM, soon followed by whining how CM isn't good enough for them.

6/22/2014 11:01:34 PM
I had a hilarious moment at a party last week when someone openly complained I was taking two girls into a bedroom.

What do the kids say? haters gonna hate :P ?

5/7/2014 1:11:12 AM

Holy fuck, barely have enough time to perv CM, if I dont get back to you in a timely manner dont be offended work has been insane $P

4/23/2014 4:53:30 PM

Life is good, life is REALLY good when you have cash, hot girls and you live 10 minutes from the beach.

4/13/2014 5:38:08 PM

Best response on CM ever:


"I don't want anything to do with any of you on CM, now here's a picture of my ass"






3/18/2014 1:43:52 PM

I fucking love summer weather in LA,  smoking hot girls are rocking bathing suits on the way to the grocery store.

1/27/2014 12:17:37 AM

True story:


I'm out on an emergency call, and several conversations with a girl on scene later shes trying to talk herself back to my place I have a rule about never taking advantage of a girl in need of help so I tell her "hun, your not interested in me, I assure you" She pulls the bratty tone and tells me she she is and starts up with how she bets I have a huge cock and needs to get rough-fucked etc. I tell her "I'm a bit rougher than your used too" she keeps at it asking me and I finally I cop to I've been screwing around with BDSM for a while now, her eyes get wide and she starts asking me if there's whips and chains waiting for her if she comes back to my place, and she wants to play show and tell. I give her her keys back and send her home.



1/8/2014 1:08:09 AM


ok who remembers this?

1/1/2014 8:33:07 PM

Its amazing no matter how much you drink gatorade will restore you in about 12 hours.


-Albert Einstein

12/24/2013 5:07:52 PM

Merry x-mas! if your getting to party like an episode of Miami vice be sure not to drive!

12/22/2013 5:32:53 PM

If your first response is to be a cunt, you either have to look fairly attractive or accept your going to be solo thru x-mas. 

-Steven Hawking

11/16/2013 9:16:48 PM

OK important facts if someone shows you their cunt before a face pic there's probably something very wrong in this situation.


8/17/2013 3:24:09 PM

Sometimes when you are having a rough week you just need to go shopping :D

5/3/2013 12:06:49 PM

hmmm its 90 degrees out? yeah... um going surfing today, no calls please... kthxbye

4/26/2013 7:28:04 PM

I could swear the majority of men in Los Angeles have been willfully castrated while my back was turned.  But "the last man in LA with a pair" is a nice title.

4/26/2013 4:53:46 PM

Can I visit your arms?
Can i visit your legs?
I won't need your insults or praise
Won't burn in your heart
Don't worry your head
Yeah if you don't want a soul mate
I'm your soul today

-Chris Cornell

4/24/2013 7:26:02 PM

Life is good. Life is best when you're unfuckingdestructable. Yes I am copyrighting that word.

4/23/2013 11:48:40 PM

"woe is me" aka F.M.L. is for fucking losers. You can quote me on that :p

4/10/2013 7:24:24 PM

"When the war was over I wept, not for what I had lived through but for the lack of battles I had lived for."




"Molon Labe, baby"




4/5/2013 9:52:13 PM

LOVE how tan I'm getting for summer.



REALLY not my kinda music but damn this is a good rendition






Heres some STP to prove I'm not losing my shit :D

1/14/2013 10:09:06 PM

if I haven't gotten back to you don't take offense I'm backed up in work on an epic level

1/10/2013 10:34:14 PM

holy fuck what a hectic 2 days... I'm doing 12 hour days and I'm still catching up on work load. Cash has been awesome though :P and I think I dropped 3 lbs.

1/10/2013 2:19:25 AM

life is good  :)

1/5/2013 12:31:48 AM



Its so easy to watch Fox news and network cable news and simply repeat what you've heard its much harder to form an independent thought for yourself and learn about what your speaking of outside what a TV producer wanted you to be riled up over. This is what politicians are banking on, they want you willfully ignorant and mad over catch phrases they've made, they want you to vote on emotion rather than thought. Al quada is out there! they're gonna get you! And thats why we need to suspend your right to privacy, oh just for a minute, month, year whatever... we'll let you know when its safe but until then we need to "modify" your constitutional rights for a little bit. 

12/24/2012 5:42:10 PM

Life is good. : )

12/1/2012 9:55:17 PM

Sometimes simply reminding someone who they are/where they are going to is amazingly satisfying. : )

11/16/2012 8:54:24 PM



fuck yeah...

11/3/2012 1:31:39 PM


Another track I LOVE/hate.

11/3/2012 11:20:38 AM

very hungover....

10/31/2012 6:25:28 PM

happy Halloween bitches!  : )

10/26/2012 12:25:10 AM

I don't know what it is but by the 24th of every month my sex drive goes into high gear. men dont have hormone cycles do they?

10/14/2012 10:23:21 PM

walking dead returns!

10/13/2012 9:06:13 PM

life is good : D, nothing can keep you down with the right attitude.

10/10/2012 9:33:44 AM

OMG sooo busy.... I know I'm letting the mail in the inbox pile up please be patient : )

10/1/2012 1:22:59 AM

When you seek me you destroy me
Rape my mind and smell the poppy's
Fallen blood in every single time


Anyone know where I can get those pants?

9/24/2012 1:43:11 AM

Why the fuck is my libido on double time these days?

9/23/2012 11:44:30 AM

Life is good : D.

9/23/2012 12:12:05 AM

What is it with all the guys making fake lesbian profiles in relationships with other fake lesbian profiles? I mean at least spell the fucking names correctly...

9/21/2012 6:46:15 PM


9/10/2012 10:56:04 AM

UN-fucking-destructable.... haters/losers be aware...

9/8/2012 1:28:48 AM

This is what I hear on my yamaha when I lean into a turn and roll up on the throttle on the way out.



LOVE that opening guitar....

9/5/2012 3:19:49 PM

normally I hate this band


also: I'm still bulletproof ;D

9/5/2012 2:22:00 AM


cant get enough of this track lately

9/4/2012 3:39:17 AM

apparently English is a dying language... who knew?

8/18/2012 2:45:23 AM

FUCK this thing is fast!

8/14/2012 1:34:53 AM

NEW MOTORCYCLE! 600cc's! cant wait to get it running nice and smooth.

7/31/2012 6:18:32 PM

CM is kinda fun but I think I might be falling for a smoking hot vanilla'ish girl I've been seeing now. lol slightly ironic... How do I say this without offending people? there's some fucking hot girls bouncing around on here I've met/dated and more but for every one of them there's "damaged goods" as in clinically mentally unstable and taking more pills than hunter thompson. At best its a mixed result.

7/13/2012 8:45:55 PM

Back after my "hiatus" of playing with my new motorcycle :P

7/10/2012 8:49:24 PM

People are always telling me I dodge bullets but, its not really "dodging" if you know where to stand


molon labe, baby.....

6/16/2012 6:59:02 PM

sometimes between 6 am and 3pm things get too a little to "real" lol

6/3/2012 10:55:39 PM

molon labe, baby!

5/30/2012 9:59:40 PM

some people are just kinda "set" to be single lol

5/17/2012 10:10:53 AM

UN-fucking- destructable


5/10/2012 9:27:10 PM


some days you just need the right theme song...

5/8/2012 8:43:23 PM

there are some weeks I dont know if I'm in charge of my libido or vice-versa :P

5/4/2012 8:46:44 PM

Really cant enough of this song lately, usually contemporary stuff bores me

5/4/2012 7:50:06 PM

The people who love me tell me I'm too fucking charming.

The people who hate me tell me I'm too fucking charming.

4/30/2012 8:21:34 PM


There are some days you get to the western shore, then there are days you declare ownership of everything in your sight.

4/28/2012 9:51:41 PM

Lol sometimes it is REALLY hard to tell if you are indestructible or the rest world is just too dumb to beat you . : P


Either way victory is sweet and a bigger paycheck is pretty nice too : D

4/28/2012 7:17:30 PM

getting excited for summer : D

3/31/2012 12:13:01 AM

I hate cardio but damn do I love the results : D

3/25/2012 8:42:32 PM

there are no "after the fact" victims, only those who cant live with the shame for their own decisions


3/19/2012 9:17:15 PM

love my sexy pre-summer rock hard abs !!! : D

3/12/2012 7:44:24 PM

if I forgot to write back I'm sorry I've been super busy and honestly trying hard -Not- to be a flake : P

2/26/2012 9:34:48 AM don't think I'll ever get tired of this, sounds like zepplin right? stay awesome collarme : P

2/3/2012 8:09:23 PM

life is good when your in good company : ).

1/8/2012 9:34:27 PM

When its been a REALLY good weekend... rock the fuck out


also never date anyone who is a former/future mental patient lolz ;P ....

1/6/2012 5:27:13 PM

Christmas just stayed a little longer this year my toy collection just got A LOT bigger.... : D

1/3/2012 10:32:51 PM

I dont think I'll have another "bad" day as long as I live but damn do I have some good ones... : ) Happy new year party people.

1/1/2012 12:13:04 AM

happy new year : D

12/14/2011 8:14:19 PM

I hate how much I enjoy this song.




11/22/2011 12:39:31 PM

You could set the world on fire, scorch the earth, burn everything in sight and I'd still stroll on up pat the soot off my shoulder, and ask: "Are you jonesing for BBQ as much as I am?"

-Lock Jockey

11/18/2011 1:08:33 AM

My new theme song

11/14/2011 3:35:03 AM

calamari and cocktails... always a winning combination ;)

11/12/2011 12:18:28 AM

sometimes life is pretty fucking cool : D (a lot)

11/4/2011 7:29:30 PM

sometimes life is pretty fucking cool : D 

10/25/2011 11:22:18 PM

I saw a "fat pic" of myself the other day so I had to add the slutty man ab pic :D

10/4/2011 2:19:15 PM


rocking my -incomplete- halo....



8lbs shy of my perfect weight... awesome

9/30/2011 11:29:30 AM

I was on my way
To the center of the sun
When I lost my wings
And I fell into a crowd
And they carried me
To a hole in the ground
And they buried me
Where no one can see
And no one would be around



Fucking love that track....

9/20/2011 12:12:23 AM

whats better than a new cell phone? a FREE new cell phone : P

9/13/2011 12:48:41 PM

Um ok.... apparently I lost 8 lbs  over the last week and my stomach looks great where the f the 8lbs went? who knows? ;P

8/28/2011 2:33:32 AM

I like where I spend my days I like where I spend my nights I like where I wake up and where I go to sleep and most important of all I like the company I keep. : )

7/29/2011 9:20:38 PM

If you've lost every case you've ever had you just might be too stupid/crazy to be an attorney... :P

7/28/2011 8:02:28 PM

Damn, where did all the hot subgirls come from all of sudden? I fucking love LA


7/23/2011 2:27:41 AM

Its getting harder and harder to be an atheist... out of the blue you get back something you thought you lost forever with all the pics, videos, texts and so VERY VERY important documents of all kinds on it... did I mention all the pics and videos : D?

7/21/2011 7:21:16 PM

Can I visit your arms?
Can i visit your legs?
I won't need your insults or praise
Won't burn in your heart
Don't worry your head
Yeah if you don't want a soul mate
I'm your soul today



I really doubt anyone can name whos singing off the top of their head...........................


























7/5/2011 6:52:31 PM

best 4th of July ever!

6/21/2011 7:47:23 PM

did someone say new shoes?! and watches? :D

6/20/2011 2:01:02 AM

Lair De Sade was fun last night : )

6/15/2011 9:03:08 PM

If this week had a theme it would be "new toys" girls, vanilla toys and kink toys :D don't make me pick a favorite.

-Lock Jockey

6/4/2011 10:15:48 PM

Like a shotgun I cant be outdone...

5/26/2011 6:46:22 PM

Slash... Isn't real...? : (

5/16/2011 12:18:54 AM

sanctuary studios is officially my Saturday night standing date

5/16/2011 12:13:02 AM

if you can tell me whos singing you win a free drink (honor system no googling ;)   )


I'm ahead, I'm a man
I'm the first mammal to wear pants, yeah
I'm at peace with my lust
I can kill 'cause in God I trust, yeah
It's evolution, baby

5/6/2011 11:25:08 PM

Wow lotta attention on here, feel free to message but give me a day or two to get back to your message.

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