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| I'm a donw-to-earth, reasonable man seeking a ltr. Because of my current job, I'm delaying active dating at least physical dating until I get established where I am. I like people who are determined to live a normal life outside the bedroom but are unfettered (metaphorically) inside the bedroom. I want a friend, a partner, someone to rely on and converse with but who likes to get disciplined and pushed around in his sexlife. I expect monogomy, disease free, and a reasonable mindset that knows where he is and where he's going in life. I don't want pets, casual encounters, or to simply get strung along. I value honesty, and I respond to almost everyone who tries to contact me or at least try to. Thanks for reading this and enjoy the next kinky little rant. I'm seeking a man who craves discipline, humiliation (no scat), some or a lot of pain (no blood or anything unsafe), bondage (half an hour to overnight with a plastic lock on the door- let's be smart about this). I want a man who enjoys being controlled. Chastity devices are a great fetish of mine. A man doesn't have to wear it all the time or even more than a day, in face a single session is enough to arouse me, but I like to keep a man's genitals locked up for my private amusement and I'm flexible about the terms. I really only need the idea of keeping a man's genitals locked up, but if you like the hardcore approach feel free to contact me. I like being served, Victorian of Edwardian themed session are also a fetish of mine. I also like black leather and crome, but that's so "main stream". I like some form of labor. I have my own business, so there's usually some labor that needs to be done anyways- might as well have some fun. Anything that reaks of dominance and submission has the likely potential to interest me. I pride myself on being an empathetic, flexible, and above all physically and emotionally safe dom. If you would like to endure long flogging sessions for the privilage of handwashing the silk hankercheives I regularly jack off into, please write:)
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Well, rewiring things has been fun. I figured out that the pedometers from the dollar store work great as attachments on paddles and whips. They are a little inaccuarte, but I think that's okay. I can use it as an excuse to beat the slave a little more or better yet- since I love games- make the slave tell me how many times I've hit him and if he gets it wrong I get to start all over again. I guess it's making virtue of necessity, but I really like toys with lots of buttons and which make play really complicated. It allows me to keep making up new rules and changing the old rules. I've recently been working long hours. It's nice to have some down time to bury my head in some kink. I've found that I have recently become very fond of the word 'pervert'. I have this strange desire for a man to detail what kind of pervert he is and to what extend and then surrender himself to me so he can be made somewhat suitable for exsistane amongst humans. I think I may switch my dom style to referring to the slave mainly as 'pervert' rather than slave. This is a big change for me, years of bootlicking and ass-padling changed. I think there's a lot of importance in how one refers to the slave. I think I just like the way 'pervert' sounds and rolls off the tongue and it sounds so condemning like the guy's a criminal for his sexual wierdness. I don't really think they're criminals, but wouldn't mind treating them like ones. I don't have a prison so chastity devices will have to do, and I don't have enough people for a jury- so i'll just have to hand out whatever sentences I think are appropriate for the offence. I'm oddly aroused by the word 'pervert' now. Oh, well. Maybe one day I'll find the pervert of my dreams. Nothing about him will ever be good enough, but I'll have fun trying whip the pervert out of him. Just my thoughts for the day. Thanks for reading- Bye:) |
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Today was amusing. I picked up a couple of paddles at a garage sale. I don't know what sport they went to, but I know which sport I'll use them for. With a bit of paint, some cutting, the suitable amount of sanding, heck I could even cover them in leather and still only be a fraction of what a paddle costs off a bdsm gear site. I can't say I'm ashamed of this. At one time, I would have spent my last dollar for professionally made gear, but why be wasteful. The world has enough of that. Also, I like having a massive variety of toys. There's a certain sense of intimidation when a dom has a wall of instruments to choose from. And oddly enough, I find my stuff ends up looking better than the stuff I can buy. I also got a fly swatter that amused me. It's normally not my thing to use stuff that's obviously banal and normal, but this one was shaped like a hand and made of blue plastic. For ten cents, it was worth the amusement it brought me. I think if I mount it in a tennis racket handle and wrap the handle in leather, it should have a kinky look. I know I'll have to buy a maple paddle off the net, that's pretty standard and I can't picture myself being with out a serious maple paddle, or an oak frat paddle, or some professionally made leather whips. But once you've felt one wood paddle or leather flogger, you've pretty much felt them all. I don't like a cheap looking dungeon since it's a reflection of my domming personae, but today's bdsm sites lack the variety to keep me interested. I can also use the money I save to buy much needed lumber- when you get done with the little things, go onto the bigger things. Well, that was my kink rant today. Thanks for reading:) |
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Today was lovely. I just got an opportunity to start building up my Dom equipment again. I get rather discouraged when I have to throw things away or destroy them to avoid being found out. I snatched up a nice face cage for baseball players. It's black and covers the face with a nice steel structure. With a few locks and leather straps, it should be able to remind any sub what his place is. It's already black and leather padded so I have to thank the sporting community for this one. I also got a leather trench coat for next to nothing at a thrift sale. I always like to alter these things to my tastes, so I see no reason to buy new and now I can spend that money on other things. The weirdest thing of all that I bought today was an ipet. It responds electronically to the tempo of music played into its mic port. Since it runs off batteries and only connects to speaker wires, I can feel free to rewire it without any safety concerns. I get pretty turned on by men who will endure pain and discipline for my minimal enjoyment. The less I seem to pay attention to their submission,the more I am aroused (on occassion). I generally like to spend a lot attention on my subs; grooming, feeding, training, charting their progress or lack of progress. But every now and then, I got to have that human footstool when I watch television. I like to watch things in Russian, so I really have to pay attention. The fact that the sub is really treated like furniture amuses me. But with this ipet thing, I should be able to hook e-stim and other things to it, so my sub can volunteer his body (and his suffering) so I can listen to my music which is also usually in Russian. The idea of a guy getting zapped and/or vibrated to my music really excites me at the moment. I used to have a set of ball stretchers and ball crushers that ran off RC car motors. The mechanism had safety stops and ultimately worked on soft foam and elastic to stretch and squeeze the testicles so no real danger of damaging theglands after all I need those so I can torture him later. They're by fay one of the toys I miss the most. If I build them again they should wire nicely into this ipet. I should start calling an ipain or something. The Apple company will be so angry with me (or they'll try to sell- some people will buy anything those guys make). I also picked up a funky looking spatulla. I don't like things that look intended for anything other than master/slave scenes, but the occassional "normal" item really adds a perverse feeling sometime. I'll have to give it an intimidating handle but because it's black teflon if should blend in nicely with my gear. I suppose I'll have to researve it for those boys who didn't learn how to behave from their mother's spankings. It might be the same tool, but I don't have a mother's touch by no means and naughty boys who didn't learn to behave by adulthood really try my patience but that's what makes bdsm so much fun. Hoping all is well with you. Thanks for reading. Play safe. Etc. :) |
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Well, today was a rather rainy day so nature gave me a day off, I might as well write a few more things. I guess all I wanted to say so far is that crave a creative lover. The next thing I wanted to say has to do with another major interest of mine. I don't like scat or blood or urine. I definitely won't and don't do breath play. But there is one thing that I am fanatical about. Chastity is a must if a guy wants to be my sub. I'm not demanding, I just like to know I hold my subs attention via his ability to sexually gratify himself. Work and travel and a number of other things can limit chastity play, and I recognise that. I can settle with just locking up a guy only during a session or occassional weekend. I'd prefer a day to day scenereo, knowing my sub has to wear a chastity belt beneath his clothes gives my a nice 24/7 feel. If a sub can only handle going a few days without an orgasm, I can be flexible. I just like having that control and being able to punish and coerce my sub anytime I please. I like having it done to me sometimes. It's the only way I can get a decent workout sometimes. Forced labour or workouts are another interest of mine, especially combined with a chastity device. I like the idea of controling a man's manhood and seeing the physical result echoed in how I've changed his body. I can be hardcore and also laid-back. Ideally, I would like a friend to spend the rest of my life with and bdsm would be part of how we spent our time together. I don't want to be worshiped all the time and occassional vanilla sex would be emotionally rewarding. I really value down-time after a session; cuddle, talk, remove the sub's chastity device if he likes, plan vanilla things we'll do. I don't want a life built around bdsm, just one that embraces it. |
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Gaff- I sometimes give a strange impression when I talk about my doming style. I try to keep myself from getting too exciting and end up abridging myself too much. But, yes, I am here to date not to have meaningless cyber-sex. I would like to clear up that when I lock up a sub with a device, I don't leave my sub alone. Machines fails, so I always have a failsafe (In case you guys thought I might put you into some sort of actual peril). Machines have always fascinated me and are part of what I'm trying to make into a career. As a rule, a robotic locking session or remote-house arrest or whatever, involves a circuit and a fall-back system. If things malfunction or there's a fire or whatever, the slave can remove himself but a motor forfiets a key that goes to a collar or chastity device or something like that so that the slave can't access it. So yes, its a major lust of mine to programme devices that lock and confine my slave when I'm not necessarily around, but I always make sure the slave can escape. I just wanted to clear that up so people wouldn't think I was reckless. It'd be great to find a guy who was also tech minded. I'm in the sort of work that melds with other science fields and I'd love to have a sub that I can also reguard as at least an impromtu collegue. |
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I guess I'll put the rest of my personae here since the main profile left me with little space. I don't believe in reveiling too much right off. I suppose the important bits are that I'm a normal, reasoning guy (I don't think reasoning it the norm though), but bdsm is my safe place at the end of the day. I'd love to meet a similar guy who likes to sub. I don't have to be a 24/7 master but the idea does excite. I like to be worshiped by my slave. This means enduring pain, doing humiliating things, completing chores (it has to be done anyways- might as well make it fun), bondage etc. The further my slave submis himself, the more aroused I am. I sometimes like to switch, but mostly I like to control things. The more things I can control, the more thrilled I am.
I'm kind of in an awkward spot right now. I'd like to form a dungeon soon, at least a temporary one. I'm really into electronics. I do a lot of engineering and wiring and such. It's not impossible for me to design a dungeon that disciplines me, but I'd like a sub to endure my machines for me. I like making timers and stuff like that. I'll make a timing device, lock myself up, then see how long the device randomly chooses to keep me. I'd prefer a sub I could put in that position.
I'm an adamently safe person when it comes to bdsm. I refuse to do anything dangerous even if someone requests it. That means no/little electro above the waste, if so it must be grounded, all of it under 4 milliAmps with regulated equipment. I shy away from things involving the neck. I dislike suspension or anything upside down. There's lots of other stuff too. I think safety is a pretty sexy quality.
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